Have those people watched the same TFA and TLJ as I? Like, kidnapping her, attacking her, telling her how "no one cares about you but me", and the "oops, I've accidentally forgotten to put on my shirt before mentally skyping you"? That doesn't seem like a basis for a healthy relationship to me, but as I said, maybe there are different versions of the movies and I've just watched the one in which Kylo happens to be the bad guy...
Maybe they did see a different film, cos the ones I watched had all that in












