#laviedela

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laviedela replied to your post: My old high school teacher told me that I might as...

Can I just say, that I think you’re super lucky you get to move in with your girlfriend and I’m super happy for you :) And also you got me super into Orange is the New Black and I don’t know what else to do with my life any more haha

Can I just hold you in my arms and cry over OITNB? I am glad you are into it, addicted if I may say so :D AAAHHH that show omg. It has me a mess. My girlfriend and I fight over who loves Vause more, but obvs I win. Thank you very much for being happy for us. We are planning on having her move in in January so that will be right before our 2 year anniversary and we will finally be closing the distance. I can't believe someone actually cares. I feel as though I just blog to invisible people :') but thank you! You should rewatch the season. Lyssa and I are doing that and I am catching things that I missed the first time around.

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Hi Lexi :) Thank you for answering :) Well I've been wanting to get a tattoo (or 7) for a really long while now, I was going to do it when I was 18, then postponed it till I moved out - to when I was 19, and now I'm nearly 20 and I haven't gotten a single tattoo because my boyfriend isn't so into the idea. It's my body and I want to get a tattoo regardless but just thought you might know a way to break him into it easy?! Thank you xxx

Aw, well that's a tough position, isn't it? I've definitely been there and like I said before one of my previous partners who I was with for 6 years simply 'wouldn't let me' and while I'm really happy with my mods now, I really regret not following that passion earlier as I'm much happier now than I was then.

I would definitely tell him that getting tattooed doesn't change you as a person, and that you respect his opinions too but it's your body and it's important to you to follow your heart and passions. I guess just impart that you understand that it's not his 'thing' but it would mean a lot to have his support in something that will make you happy, even if he doesn't necessarily approve of it. 

Good luck & hope that helps! xx

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Hi Lexi :) Before I say anything else I really want to say that I adore your blog and all the cool stuff you get up to. I definitely look up to the way you look at the world. Anyway, my question for you is; have you ever had a disagreement with your husband about tattoos/piercings you wanted if so/if not & if he did how would you deal with it? Thank you! xxx

Aww, thank you! What a very sweet thing to say!

I'm trying to think if we ever have had, and I think the answer is no. He's modified himself, and he fully subscribes to the 'your body, your choice' mindset and so while I'm sure there are some things he's not crazy about (me wanting to have my knuckles done or my forehead tattooed) he'd never tell me 'no'. He also knows that I was in a previous relationship where my partner dictated these things to me: I wasn't allowed to have piercings or tattoo. So when I left him and moved on in my life and into another relationship with someone else who encouraged me to do whatever made me happy I knew any future relationships would also have to follow this understanding. 

Was this just a general question or have you had problems with a partner regarding similar issues? xx 

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KATIE'S FOLLOW FOREVER: 2011 Wrap Up Edition

Oh come on. Everybody else was doing it!

I don't want to classify these as my "favorite" tumblrs, just because I feel awful that I can't tag everybody. I follow 100+, so know that if I follow you- you're wonderful. These are just the people I tend to stalk/talk to/reblog the most. If you're not following them too... Look at your life. Look at your choices.

ALEX - AYLA - BOOZY - CAM - DILPREET - DYLAN - EFFY - ELAINA - FYEAHDAILYGRACE - GRACE - GRACE N' MICHELLE - JENNICA - JOSEY - KELSEY - KELSEY II - KEVIN - KYE - LUCKYPRESH - MAMRIE - MARLEY - MATT - MICHELLE - NADINE - NERDY - PC - RACHEL - SAENGKING - SAM - TREENA - TS - VICKI - 90'S JAMZ 

To each of you: Thank you for distracting me from my grown-up obligations, supplying me with a pretty epic collection of gifs, and understanding the desire to become irrationally emotional when someone talks shit about whatever fictional character I happen to be obsessed with at the time.