(Context: I am wearing a hard plastic cervical brace to support my neck pre-surgery next month)
Why the hell would anyone’s approach to asking about my brace as “WHAT’D YOU DO TO YOUR NECK!?” I mean a grown ass adult woman, not a child.
Like, thanks for your ‘concern’ but examine your tone, your phrasing and whether you’d ask someone using any other type of assistive medical device as WHAT’D YOU DO TO...
I didn’t DO anything. I had a tumor grow in my spine and required surgery and now it’s something else too but it’s none of your damn business. Go away.