Leechstance: A blankstance aimed at people with identities and experiences that get called "complicated", "controversial," and "dangerous."
Leechstance is against:
"MUD" and "xenomalady" coining, radqueers, fults, xenosatanism, consistent progressivism, and all subset terms
being anti-nontraumagenic
the idea of "narcissistic abuse," "borderline abuse," or anything else that demonizes a specific disorder
demonizing paraphiles for their paraphilias, such as assuming attraction/thoughts = action or intent
"minors in kink" or anything else otherwise implying that children can safely have relationships with adults, or implying the same for animals x humans
the idea that abuse can be consensual
the idea that incest can be happy, healthy, or should be normalized
the idea that rape can be consensual
gender essentialism
Leechstance supports:
all paraphiles and kinksters as people, and their right to do kinky actions consensually that make them happy, even if someone else doesn't like it
destroying the idea that BDSM is the same as abuse
tagging kink content appropriately and taking actions to prevent minors from accessing it, such as blocking them
sex work
coining new words to describe your orientation/attraction, even if someone thinks it is "too specific" or "un-needed"
polyamory, nonamory, nichelinks, acearos, fictospec and autospec
In general: EVERYONE who has a relationship they would consider different from the norm, who is able to consent to it and is not encouraging grooming or abuse.
non-traumagenic plurality, xeno-origins, and especially created systems
people with highly stigmatized disorders (such as schizophrenia, DID, ASPD, etc)
multispec, multigender, fluid, aro/ace, term hoarder and kinky lesbians and gays
transmasculine and male lesbians, transfeminine and female gays, and all variants
callout or warning posts with definitive evidence of danger
In addition, this term is inherently Paraphile Compassionate.
Anything not specified, this term has no stance on and is up to the individual. Emoji code for this if you would like one is 🩸😷🌈 or 🩸🌈!
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