I've always referred to myself as a Boys girl, hangin' out with the guys, avoiding the dolly's and nail polish while rolling in the mud with my flannel buttons missing. As I've grown up I've stuck closely to my tomboy-ish character in all aspects, good or bad. Through the years i've come to realize I am a woman, and can be a beautiful woman at that when I set my mind to it. I've changed this or that and broken through my typical hatred of everything female in most things, but one thing I've realized is that I haven't done away with my bias. I haven't come to understand the equality of men and woman, seeing myself as a special type of woman.
There's this girl whose tit's I've had the pleasure of seeing on my man's messages, and my immediate thought when seeing her face continues to be "slut". This is wrong. I'm in an open relationship with my best friend, we are both free to see and do anyone with the contingency of honesty between each other and protection of the other's well-being. So why is my first thought "Slut" when I see this girl? I, myself have had my own excursions and entered this relationship with full knowing of his relational exploits. I believe the reason can be explained by a recognized pattern in my history. I'm quick to call a woman a slut for sin's I am guilty of myself.
I see in myself an incredibly judgmental and close-minded child. A sliver of my past-selves that has linked herself to me as baggage, a mirror of who I am really. Who I've become will always mask who I was. This stigma against woman is part of that bias, and I recognize it as such. I am not a tom-boy. Or a girls girl. I am a human. You are a human. we are family of light, all one and all love. It doesn't matter your sex or your gender... It doesn't matter the pitch of your voice or your interests. We are family of light and acceptance. Love and humility. We are one, and as one all guilty and innocent together.
-Let's finish this with an apology to all those females I've thrown the name "Slut" or "Cunt" at.
