#lets be positive!

[necoconeko]

Meh

[batcocoon]

sooooooo…

[sozotohakai]

A little dose of flower view for my followers~ ♥

In the past few weeks I’ve found myself loving to have flowers at home, our home is more green now and it’s so nice.

Fun fact! The one that’s all green is the oldest one, I think I bought it in December? January? And it’s actually a rose plantation! Sadly, the flowers died out, though they lasted for quite a bit. However, the rest stayed, and in the past week or so it’s started to really grow, as you maybe can see, I let the leaves that I cut or fall in the dirt, and sometimes I had little things in it. We’ll see if rose flowers grow back again!

The light purple ones have been at home for, two weeks?, now I think. And the bouquet, I got it today, when I went out for grocery shopping (it was actually three different bouquets, each having a pack of the same flowers, they were selling with an offer of the third being free with two bought soooo!).

Enjoy~

[sozotohakai]

I adore you... you helped me in hard times. Everytime i feeling like the worst i think of you how brave you are Allen. Even when you where A bratty little kid.

Well, that made Allen speechless. He wasn’t sure if he really was brave, but... If someone looked at him and felt better...

“You sound like a brave one yourself. It doesn’t matter if you find your courage inside yourself or through something external, what matters is that you looked for it. So I’m proud of you, for being able to find what helps you when it is hard. I’ll continue to be brave, if you promise me you’ll continue to find what makes you feel better.”

And he had a stranger sensation, a thought that he wasn’t sure he should question.

But really... few would call him a bratty kid, would seem to have known him then.

Even if it isn’t actually who he thinks it might, his words are still genuine.

[sozotohakai]

I used to stress myself a lot about replying “on time” and some days I still have those old thoughts coming; but I developped a way of thinking that ended up effective for me.

Here’s the thing: the two main ideas you can have about replying “on time” would be -> It’s a hobby! Don’t stress yourself! You can take however long you want! -> It’s a hobby but still, there’s some limit, right..?

(I think most people might have a different “limit” in mind, for me it can be a week, for someone else a month, etc; where it somehow feels like it’s taken “too long”).

Here’s another thing: those two ideas are not contradictory. You can feel it’s get “too much” after a certain time, but also genuinely think that, hey, it’s a hobby, you should be able to take however long you want.

The thing is, if you stop worrying about being “on time”, you trick your mind into not caring anymore about “how long”. And so, you reply in whatever pace suit you on a given time. Sometimes it’s hours, another time days, sometimes it can weeks. But it just ends up along the lines of “ahh great it was fast this time!”, “ahh well it’s okay needed more time!”

(Sometimes you can meet people who care more about “timely reply”, but think about it: if it stresses you, to try to reply “on time”, is it really wise to rp with someone who want timely reply?)

(Most rpers I see now, though, genuinely follow the whole “take the time you need” mindset! It’s still possible to not match well with someone, it can be from writing style, or what you look for, or sometimes pace, but it should never mean that you stress yourself into changing what is comfortable to you).

(In the end, what should be said is: rp is a hobby, and that’s why you can and should follow whatever is comfortable for you, be it pace, theme, wishes, etc!)

[beastoids]

hi sorry bother you. I wanted to know what you think about beast popularity and people saying they are not doing good. I hear things and I am scared for them.

Hello :) You are not bothering me.

Awh I am sorry you feel that way-- but I guess I see where you are coming from. I haven’t heard about Beasts popularity, but I have seen a few questionable commentary about Beast around this website... I think, when I read these things, that its all talk. You know, people writing down opinions and speculating and just thinking out stuff. Everyone is entitled to their opinion even if it is about your favorite group and it can make a fan bitter lol. 

I just know that Beast is still doing very well. I mean Good Luck and Time made last year Beasts year. And even this year, YeY still topped charts despite being promoted poorly (IMO). These guys are so dedicated and are hell-bent on remaining dedicated to their music and fans. TBH people who think that Beasts struggles were just a marketing gimmick need to realize, that these guys not only established their careers after being rejected multiple times from huge companies, but they had a huge part in establishing Cube. Let us not forget they were/are game-changers in an industry where they were viewed as a recycled group taking a stab at fame because this is the history, which for me, trumps any sort of negative commentary about Beast’s popularity faces today. They know their roots and they are dedicated on growing continuously even when they are popular and even when they still get condescending crap and attitude bc they hail from Cube.

So people talk and we have something like a Hyunseung rumor (that he ditched Beast because he had a date--. tf?!) or something else-- and I can speculate and wonder and argue that Beast is still awesome-- but I will just say: Beast has kept their promise to their fans. They always come through and even on their sixth anniversary they assured us that they will be Beast for a long time. I mean people can always speculate and we don’t know stuff for sure right? So I think it is just best to support them as we have and hope for the best for them!

[axvist]

just read latest naruto chapter. and...uh oh...i sense jealousy from Sasuke part. oh my... i fear stg wil happened due to this.