Think of the time you waste, talking bs with your girls, scrolling on the gram, chasing guys? This is all energy you could be investing into YOU. It’s so easy to give your time away to others, to distractions, but thats not self-love, because you’re not putting the time aside to invest into your dream life first. The true essence of self-love is putting your needs and desires above everything else, above the friend who is calling you with her problems even though you’re supposed to be studying, or the guy who asks you out on a date even though you were planning to go for a long run that night. In order to upgrade your life, you’re going to have to become a whole new level of disciplined. You’re going to have to schedule time in your day for your growth. You’re going to have to read more, learn more, and take more action. You’re going to have to say no to a lot of distractions, and as you do this you’ll start to see how making all these changes and investing in making your dreams a reality was the best decision you could ever made.