I'm the anon that asked about Debbie and thank you for your elaborate reply it was very informative! actually she gives me bad vibes, since she has such a hold on him, it's weird when he calls her guru even as a joke, it's great he's happy but, seems very codependent to me, I wish he hadn't messed up his marriage to Patsy or Nicole because both seemed to love him for who he is!
Hello again!
Yeah, I don't like her because of the total control she appears to have. If she were just his manager or just his girlfriend it wouldn't be so concerning.
The guru thing - coupled with everything else - does seem like he's letting her run his life.
He does seem happy enough with her and I'm glad he isn't alone. But he probably would have been much better off with Nicole. They were well suited in personality and she absolutely adored him and seemed very supportive.
It reminds me of lyrics from Liam's song More Power from C'mon You Know, a song Liam co-wrote.
The cut, it never really heals
Just enough to stop the bleed
And you won't get the girl you want
But you'll get the girl you need
Maybe that's how he sees Debbie.
