#lib s9

[swordsswordsswords]

Women on love is blind are like “I’m looking for a man to fall in love with me and once we’re married will care for me when I inevitably lose my eyesight due to a degenerative eye condition” and men are like “someone DMed me on Instagram and asked if I wanted to be on TV”

[iseathegalaxy]

not a single marriage i am laughing so hard

[notjaycakes]

Love is Blind s9 thoughts (cont.)

Well, three more episodes came out and man... Idk it just kept getting worse. Where to even begin? I got some mf thoughts. Ngl, I HATE defending men... but the women on this show don't make it easy for me to support or defend them and their weird ass behavior.

Aline and Anton. Throw her away, dump her. Very entitled and wants him to take care of her while she does whatever the hell she wants to and may I remind you... still wants a 10k wedding/engagement ring (honestly cant remember bc who fucking cares). Admitted she was freeloading at her parents house while she was in school and has no intention of helping out in any way shape or form when she decides to go back to school if they get married along with wanting a private chef. I know he clocked this and is saving face so hopefully he dumps her at the altar, idc. "Why are you acting so odd?" BITCH. PLEASE BE SO FUCKING FORREAL RIGHT NOW. Also, Anton's bestfriends new girlfriend trying to be a girls girls by telling her they used to go to strip clubs all the time... okay, yeah when he was single? who gives a fuck right now? The fact that all of a sudden she's insecure about it.. baby, you out here acting like a gold digger, i don't think you have time to be worried about all that. 🙄 "You're in trouble" blah blah whatever the fuck she said. He's probably an alcoholic or just enjoys partying + drinking. Idk, she just irks the fuck out of me.

Annie and Nick. Babe, being insecure because you don't know if he's all in is insane, relax.. it's barely been a week or so since ya'll got engaged and it's an experiment that was out of the norm. He chose you and you need to stfu. Still don't like them bc of how homophobic they are especially bc there's still the possibility that Nick is gay. What I WILL say? Baby... so far out of everyone's homes that we've seen? Nick definitely has the NICEST and most cozy home. Doesn't look like he just moved in or anything like that. It has so much fucking personality, it's classy (imo), and also... love his man cave?? As a gamer myself, seeing his racing rig was awesome especially with the three monitors AND.... he had a fucking cobra? WOWZA. Like, I don't like him at all... but he got good taste is all ima say.

Joe and Madison. I don't like Joe all that much but he reminds me of Nick from New Girl, lmfao and i have no idea why. Girl, he don't fucking like you... and you fucking cry way too damn much. Again to reiterate... he was probably fucking intoxicated asf and just needed to sleep it off but you pushed and pushed and now hurt your own damn feelings. Ya'll fight too damn much and ya'll aint making it to the damn altar. Its giving Jimmy and Chelsea vibes fr fr. BUT- JOE CLOCKED NICK AT THE PARTY AND IM HERE FOR IT LMFAO. Read that mf to FILTH.

“Great guy, some might say. I don’t fuck with him too much. Could be the best guy in the world, fucking ain’t my guy. Great hat tonight.”

Iconic is all im gonna say for that.

Megan and Jordan. Sparkle bitch get on my damn nerves... you don't need to buy a house with a budget of 1.5-2.5 mil, you need to put that money towards therapy and grieving and family counseling because they way ya'll keep choking and crying at the thought that Jordan was sent to you bc of his son who has type 1 diabetes like your dad is fucking weird as hell. Every. Damn. Time and i mean every damn time Luca is brought up, you think about your dad and bring him up. HE IS NOT YOUR DAD REINCARNATED EITHER. It's too damn much. Also, great that she's willing to step up and be a step mom but his mom is still alive and well and you basically wanna be mom already is so cringe, like she may like your ass right now... but i know she gon be sick of you, jfc. lol. Jordan... now baby... why the fuck are you drinking blended chicken with crystal light? DISGUSTING LMFAO. I will say the face he made when she said 1.5-2.5 mil had me cracking tf up cus you know he ain't wanna spend that much. I also love that he wants to be financial conscious and only get the necessities, he loves a bit of a simple life and that's fine! Especially bc he wants his son to work and earn everything rather than be handed on a silver platter... he's raising that boy right.

the worst for last...

KB and Edmond. Charity work, she is absolutely doing charity work at this point. He is a child in an adult body and you can't change my mind. I think he grew up without a dad and was raised by his mom so he was super soft etc. But again, this man literally had a whole break down and melt down about not getting some kewchie bc hes a nice guy while everyone else got laid... but this man also said, he would do nothing if another man put hands on KB. Like you a whole bitch. Even if you can't find you better still defend your woman or at least tell the man to stop?! But you gonna let her get assaulted? What kind of dumb fuck... Ugh. I am actively getting aggravated typing this because I DESPISE him. 😂😭 This dude also went into the cabinet and getting super excited about it.. ok tbf i probably would too bc I LOVE big cabinets... but going inside and saying, "im in the closet!" like idk, is that some lil hint or something bc KB gotta be your beard now. His mom was just giving off such weird vibes too. Also, he's a fucking asshole to gaslight her yet again at the mixer/party whatever it was trying to say that KB never says nice things about him and to him. "That would be nice (if KB said I was perfect)." I LOVED how she clocked him right then and there and he tried to double down saying, "I don't wanna talk about this here." Okay then why the fuck did you say anything to begin with? It upset me that she had to be like, "Why can't you ever answer anything when I'm asking you a question?" And he just goes and says I love you and she's like thats not what I wanna hear. Baby KB, if you say yes at the altar... Oh my god.

Honorable mentions bc of the mixer. Anna, you dumb ass... now why the fuck would anyone chase after you when you GHOSTED Patrick? You didn't even let him know or production know WHY you left. He's in an experiment to find love and marry someone. He wanted YOU and he was so hurt by YOU so ofc he chose to move on, shitty choice but it was his decision. You also forget that you also had another connection with Blake! I mean, he left too cus you were his number one choice but didn't seem like he went out of his way to meet you bc I didn't see him or Kacie at that lil get together!

Annie, now.. LMAO. You're happy you didn't choose Brendan in the end because of his behavior at the get together? Where he's choosing to be respectful of Nick... BECAUSE YOU'RE ENGAGED? What in the fuck? You wanted this man to grovel and chase you it seems??? You seem bitter, fr fr. “Brendan said Ilysm in the pods…that is not the energy that is being conveyed here tonight.” Again.. you're engaged and that would be very fucked up. At least he has the decency to not be an asshole about it even though you were basically his number one! My god.

Anyways, it's a long post sorry. but goddamn.

[bearrhi]

the internalized racism towards asians from two asian people on love is blind season 9 (anna and patrick) gmfu 💀

also dont get me started on how patrick said he's "proud" of his heritage but he literally agreed that he would've eliminated someone just because they're asian and then said cambodia is in south asia (it's southeast asia)... like baby c'mon i know we're american and our education system is a little 😬 but that's just basic geography??

i feel like i sound like a bitch but as an asian person that spent most of their life in the US, watching self-hating asian-americans ice out their own race, still, as ADULTS is maaaaaaaaad weird to me. at some point, you can't keep blaming it on growing up in a predominantly white area.

[iseathegalaxy]

was he making out with the dirty floor?? saying it felt good to kiss something after so long???

[swordsswordsswords]

Going to rant about Nick from the recent love is blind season for a sec. I say this with affection as a queer person, that is most likely a closeted queer man looking for a beard to please his conservative, christian family. It seemed like he was saying whatever he could to these women to get one of them to fall in love and agree to marry him. he says “people call me a player” because that is the straight narrative he has created for himself, that he believes in order to fit in with a heteronormative society. When he asks Annie about “what if our child was LGBT+” I think that was a conscious decision in order to gage her reaction to see if it aligned with the goal he’s trying to achieve (ie get a Christian wife) with this process. When she affirmed a more negative view of queerness he accepted it, sadly, as aligned with the internalized homophobia he feels toward himself. To me it also seems he is strategically planning a relationship with physical distance, i.e. agreeing to commute between Denver and the mountains, because that is the only way a straight relationship is palatable to him. So when Annie is protesting that he doesn’t love her enough, I do see how it’s an insecurity on her part but also based in some truth in that I don’t think he really loves her. They both picked a partner to suit a superficial need of being married as a form of validation, so in that (toxic) way they’re kind of made for each other. I’m glad Nick finally had the courage to call it off and not drag it out further before more damage could be done to either person.

[leoascendantgirl]

"I want to discuss why it's so hard to break our dating patterns when we do. I know this firsthand because I was on the apps for two months, like August and September, and a little bit of October, and I saw flames, you know. Yeah, I think whenever you open yourself up to the process of loving and being loved, it's incredibly vulnerable. It's a mirror . You see so much of yourself. You are confronted with who you used to be because the people in your life, in your life up to this point, are all a manifestation of who you were and what you tolerated. It's very confronting."

-Mukundwa, " I Said What I Said" Podcast Ep. 155

[leoascendantgirl]

"I wouldn't be friends or lovers with someone like him [Jordan]. Because I'm very sensitive to snark, sarcasm, and cruelty. Cruelty, meanness, like the gentle put-downs. Like when he compliments and says, 'don't let it get to your head, ' he said on several occasions.

For me, snark, sarcasm, cruelty, or let's just say snark and sarcasm are defensive and they are. If you think of violent communication, they are on the spectrum of violent communication. They're not high up by any means. (...) It's combative to be snarky, to be sarcastic. It's a protective mechanism. It's unpleasant. It's spiky energy. I don't accept that myself."

-Mukundwa, " I Said What I Said" Podcast Ep. 155

Me neither. I am choosing to be never with someone who thinks snarkiness, sarcasm is elevated humour. It's hard to choose right for yourself, but it is also so liberating.