#liight-weight

[lesfem-phasma]

It wasn't long ago, but I don't even remember her URL. She really wouldn't listen to anything I had to say. It was all, "But, but, but..." seems like the only perspective worth listening to on lesbian matters come from non-lesbians, huh? Must be.

about how long do you think? I might just re-start that lil argument depending on what I see.

but of course, don’t you know? we silly lil lesbians can’t do anything for ourselves. we need the big non-lesbians to take care of us and tell us what’s best for us.

and they’re more than happy to tell us what’s best for us and what we have to do, aren’t they?

[lesfem-phasma]

Furthermore I hate the way that they try to separate romantic and sexual attraction within homosexuality. Like..... That's the clearest sign they don't know shit about how gay sexuality works at all. They try to apply things that have no place here.

no kidding.

honestly, the sexual/romantic split really only works with aro/ace people (ya know, the ones it was made for in the first place) because splitting them with anyone else is really just hiding homophobia/compulsitory heterosexuality, many young people’s need to be ~special and totes q*eer~ or the result of internalized misogyny (ie, “heteroflexable” women who really only like guys but can totes kiss girls for their boyfriend’s enjoyment and has learned how to objectify women like men and “bisexual heteroromantic” women (and “bisexual homoromantic” men) who basically treat women as nothing but sex toys and has their ~real~ relationships with men)

it all just comes back down to homophobia and misogyny when you get down to it.

and if this is what your argument was on, then I bet this non-lesbian just wanted to ~use her position~ to make sure everyone knows lesbians still can totes love men huh?

makes me sick