@likewise-r Thank you for your reply, even though Tumblr won’t let me respond to it for some reason. And yeah, you are absolutely right that I don’t need permission for stuff like that. But also, it kinda feels nice to get it? I don’t know, I’m a super insecure person and I have been struggling SO MUCH with the concept of my gender for a while now but that’s also mostly because I don’t know anything about how gender works or what my feelings about it mean. So it’s nice to know that deciding, even if it’s just for now, that I’m just not gonna have one for a bit is something that can be accepted and not viewed as lazy just makes me so much more comfortable with the idea. I’m also fairly confident that this will be a temporary thing as I try to figure stuff out a bit more, but I want to take a break from that because literally all that I KNOW right now is that female doesn’t feel quite right anymore but not to the point that I am opposed to she/her pronouns.