So... I was talking to my siblings who are a system. And I started describing my experiences as being fictionkin. There's some with kins, so they get it ™️
But then I started describing something where they had me basically back track to what I said and they pointed out "kinda sounds like a kingenic, median system"
And like- the fuck is that? So I ask them to explain they explained, had me look at the pluralpedia, and other sorts of things
After a bit of research and things, I was told that median systems are like right at the cusp being a singlet and being plural. And after a bit of discussion with them and things, they said that I could identify either as a singlet or plural. I fall right in that category based off what I described and the research.
Been, well, thinking about it for well, a few weeks. Researching, making an inner chart of which kins are just that, and which feels the most distinct as separate from "me" yet still being "me" (trust me, this has been extremely complicated.)
Anyway, there's 4 "parts" of me that are distinct in their own way. I am those 4 parts all combined.
My siblings told me that I can say I'm plural or a singlet, it won't matter either way since I'm actually more in between. They described it like the sex spectrum, where I'm an intersex person of the singlet/plural spectrum, which made me laugh.
Anyway- I've decided that offline I'm saying I'm a singlet. Makes my life easier. But... online? Hello. We're plural. (Not going to lie, this was why we got Slay the Princess, it was to help figure things out)
Um... Oh, I guess this really isn't a kinfession much is it? Well. Maybe if I sign off as the names of my parts, this'll count lol
-Ashley Graves, Linkle, Colin, Neuro-Sama #🖤🏳️⚧️🐺 (i think fablings was the correct term according to our research)
P.S. this explains why I sometimes say "we" and talk out loud to myself. Guess I kinda always knew, didn't I? (This is still confusing. 😭)
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