Difference Between Practical & Negative Thinking
You may have seen the lot of people saying that donât that that negative / Donât say that / why you always talk negative so today i am going to talk about the difference between practical and negative. Like when you are working in a team and they all agree on doing doing something but when you think logical and see things from long term perspective then you will find that it is not a great decision so you tell them about future consequences and they be like câmon man why you always think negative then donât get disappointed, its human nature we cannot accept the change easily, its in our nature to resist the change but donât forget that humans are the only species who change a lot with time so all you need to do is just doing some tricks and understand the other person. Â
First we need to understand what is Negative thinking ?
It simply means filling your mind with negativity in every situation for eg. Talk to someone in such way that they will feel humiliated or embarrassed even when you are talking them for the first time, When someone ask you something in a positive way and you reply negative for no reason at all, always looking for black spot in a whole clean white board and just think about the bad consequences of some situation even when there are more chances of happening something good and so on. Negative thinking is very cheap and little thinking and cannot accept broadminded logics. Always focus on others works and never encourages anyone. He only look for flaws in everything.
Now what is Practical thinking ?
Some people misunderstood practical with negative thinking and here is why because ever situation has two (or more) options either that will happen or that will happen so if you think logical then surely you will find some positive and some negative consequences because life is not a fairy tail. No one has to worry about the positive result but instead of that we have to think about negative and try to find the solution of almost every negative consequence but if we fail to do so then just stop speaking about it continuously and if you donât have any choice then just leave it and wait for what happens next. Practical thinking usually done by considering the consequences in both short term and long term time period. He thinks with rational perspective.
Now you know the basic Difference between negative and practical thinking. âNegative means keep thinking about only negative consequences and practical means think every situation and try to get the solution of every possible negative outcome.âÂ
Now how to get rid of those stupid persons who called every practical thinker a negative person.
1) Talk in an influential wayÂ
The other person must understand what you are trying to say and to make him understand that you should look the things from his perspective so that you can find where he is missing the point and only then you can make him understand the situations from yours perspective.
2) Speak Gently and Listen Carefully
The person should need to believe that you are listening to his point and trying to understand only then he will listen you your point.
3) Donât shout and use Body movementsÂ
Using body movements will give you a strong weightage because it make you influential.
