#lonely queer

[thevoidscreamer]

lonely queer seeks community in local improv group

home for a few days now after visiting my partner and meta, and my other partner is still deployed.

spending time with my only friend in Spokane (spokhomie) today has been a pleasant but painful reminder of how important community is to a person's well-being.

realizing real fast that one writing meetup per week with spokhomie and one pilates session with my instructor is just not enough community interaction, especially now that my barista job is coming to a close.

I just know I'll need something to keep me from turning into the raging feral monster I become if left to my own devices for too long.

So improv it is.

that's sound logic, right?

[elphabaskufi]

I'm loved by family. I'm loved by my friends. I'm learning to love myself more and more And yet I still want to be held and thats not something that I've willed away. I've tried and yet...

[hotpants83-onice]

Will I ever find myself in a relationship??

[massivelyandrogynouskryptonite]

Yo I need more queer friends...

[iaintgottime]

clap your hands if you’re so touch starved that you fall in love with your hairdresser

[bodiesofwater]

i’ve been missing pdx.  i’m hoping to make a visit soon but i feel kinda weird about it, like there’s not much left there for me.  my folks are in denial about my brother and his fucked up shit, and he and i haven’t spoken in like 9 months.  most of my old friends and i don’t really have anything in common anymore.  or i don’t feel like anyone would be particularly excited to see me.  my two friends from high school who are single moms are really excited for me to visit, but it’s different when they’re like my family (and they’re desperate for adult companionship).  i feel like i started making friends during this really dark time in my life, and then when i stopped drinking and being sketchy i lost touch with all of them.  i’m so not proud of who i was a couple of years ago.   i was a sad person acting like they were having the time of their life and people bought it i guess.  now i’m happier but i’m also quite bored.  i suppose the real problem is that i don’t really have any friends in seattle, and i have no idea what to do about that.  there’s a coworker or two i’d like to hang out with but i’m too shy to ask them. 

[uglybagofmostlywater]

Only day 2 on my South East Asia trip and I'm feeling a bit lonely :( I wish I did this with a friend. I've talked to some other tourists but we don't have much in common and they look at my leg hair like I have a disease