#losing trust

[naturalhygiene]

Losing trust is a frightful thing. And regaining it must come through an atmosphere of love—no other way but through love.

[tkkl8]

You can't trust anyone anymore.

[so-lost-and-found]

Loyalty is hard to find. Trust is easy to lose. Actions speak louder than words.

[lovelystony]

This scene really breaks my heart because I realized that this is where Tony lost his trust on Steve. It wasn’t when Steve refused to sign the accords. Or when Steve lied to Tony and chose Bucky over him. It’s this time when Tony raises his hand up over himself because he was so sure that Steve will kill him.

[help-my-relationship]

My (25F) girlfriend broke up with Me(25M) after she found out I was talking to my EX

Before coming in relationship me and my girlfriend knew eachother for 4 years. I am a kind of person who maintains no contact and very much distance from females when I am in relationship (my own choice). She was also kind of same. Didn't told her to maintain any distance. My ex and I were highschool lovers but we mutually broke up as things were not getting along. We were 5 years in a relationship together. It was July 25 when I got call from unknown number unknowingly it was from my EX, She called and told me she cheated on me many times at past. And she gave me all the details Inside out what not at morning she was with me at evening with someone else. (And it is just a gist) What not, idk why I was listening but after that call I was numb. She told me she was having guilt for all those years but decided to tell me now. I couldn't process anything ended the call couldn't handel it. I was not hung onto her but in my mind there was a soft corner for her cuz we broke up mutually and cheating was never in the picture. That same night I called my girlfriend and told her I am feeling disturbed but couldn't tell her everything (idk why)told just the cheating part. She tired to console me..but kept on asking "why are you feeling bad?" I think it's was a genuine question But i couldn't answer it was whole lot to process for me. My emotions i couldn't handel. Next day i made the mistake to call my ex and shouted how could you do this you ruined the only good memory I had of my highschool but she was furious and started to abuse me. Then I decided to make her(EX) feel bad. I always believed in karma but that time I convinced myself I have to take action now. Later I talked with with my ex. I decided to make her feel bad by talking to her and making up a story that "I also cheated on you" to make her feel bad (dumb me) But I decided to end this scene within a month. I hid things from my girlfriend I felt she won't understand. Later next month August 25 me and my girlfriend decided to meet (we both work at different state) Planned out holidays but on the first night my girlfriend was going through my phone and saw I was talking to my ex. And decided to broke up with me. I tired to tell her what I was feeling that time. Why I did this but i couldn't. Even I called my EX in front of her that time and put it on loudspeaker it was clear that I was not talking to her before July and told her I have a girlfriend. My EX wouldn't believe I have a girlfriend now. I hung up. From that day she (my girlfriend) didn't blocked me from everywhere but removed me from all socials But we are connected in whatsaap where she ignores my texts. Why am I still in hope?? Because I was there when she was at her lowest. She have many times crossed the boundaries which I didn't like and let it go. Eg:- her getting drunk and got black out at club, Forgetting out first anniversary date. Giving her space even though when it was her fault. At her fault decide to brokeup with me but i had to eat up my feelings and convince her to be with me and what not. Basically avoidant personality. Before this there was a boy my girlfriend was friends with which she knew he likes her but I didn't say much cuz she maintains the distance with him but they spend good amount of time in University but ofcourse i didn't liked him around her but later I went to meet her we were clicking pics I was scrolling through her snap she tried to snatch her phone away from my hand I get suspicious i went to memories there was a pic of her with him sitting close (in a friendly way) and she was hiding it from me  I felt worse but I let it slide. Idk what to say I just feel I have let go of so many things. And be there for her. But when it comes to me. I get this What I did to convince her?

What she did is neither relevant nor the same or comparable to what you did.

A) She doesn't owe you a second chance just because she talked to a guy who liked her. That's very transactional and gross of you.

B) You cannot possibly claim with any level of confidence or maturity that you felt worse then than she does now. Bottom line: those weren't deal breakers for you. This was a deal breaker for her.

C) It's not so much about your ex, which I don't think you understand. You lied to her and hid things from her time and time again over what sounds like a pretty extended period of time. For weeks at least, and then kept the chats as well. Lying erodes trust. You let this bleed into your relationship and didn't even have the decency to be transparent about it.

I'm really sorry about how your ex treated you, but it was your decisions and your decisions alone that harmed your most recent relationship. There is nothing more for you to do here. Take the lesson and apply it to your future relationships and behavior.

[quotesincolors]

[sorasaurs]

I'm so done with my friends . I have no support like I just need to not open up

[24australia-blog]

China losing trust in Australia