You ever notice that when you’re really into something and are totally focused on, it someone somewhere will interrupt you?
Loving yourself is a lot like that. If you do it right, you’ll never need another person again. You’ll only want other people. And the people you’ll want will be very special and specific because you know and like yourself now, and you won’t allow harmful people in your life. Then suddenly you’ll meet someone who interrupts that.
If you’re still not there with your self love, this person will be your worst nightmare they will bring out the worst in you and undo all your progress in self love. They’ll break all the bonds you’ve built and leave you lost, wondering who you are, and how you’ll get back.
If you are there with your self love, you will find that this person compliments you and you them. Your team work will be effortless, and you’ll go from wanting this person to needing them, not because you’ll be “nothing without them” but because you can’t have as much fun if they aren’t involved.
Love is a commitment to yourself and the person you choose that you’re not going to give up on the good parts of yourself because you’re insecure about the bad.