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Things to bring when sleeping overnight at someone else's place

Obviously not all of these will apply to everyone, but here are some suggestions for those who may worry about not taking the right stuff/forgetting something. Some of these items are included specifically to accommodate disabled people and the neurodivergent. If you have any others feel free to reblog or reply with your suggestions!

Any medication you may need, and an extra day's dose if possible

Any mobility aids if needed

Hairbrush

Deodorant

Toothpaste and toothbrush

Wet wipes/intimate wipes

Makeup remover/wipes, any skincare you like to do everyday

Contraception (could include birth control, male and/or female condoms)

Sanitary towels/tampons if you use

Hair ties/bonnet

Shower gel and shampoo

Clothes for the next day (or more depending how long you're staying) and an extra pair of underwear

Phone charger

Headphones/earphones

Fidget/stim toy(s)

Fluffy socks/slippers if you wear them

Something warm to wear (coat/sweater)

Snacks, especially if you have food issues and would prefer eating a safe food

Wallet with some money (cash and/or card)

Any comfort items that might help you feel safer in a new environment (stuffed animal, blanket, etc)

Feel free to reblog/reply with any other suggestions!

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