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I like the single life. yet oddly I love shipping stuff in fiction as I'm a die hard romantic. Also I sometimes ship OCs with Canons but I feel like others would think I'm weird for doing it.

Whoo that’s great! And ship what you want. Your life, your ships.

-🌈Admin Sandeep

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I'm really good friends with this one girl, and I have a crush on her, and I now know that she is also bi but also touches a lot of my male friends inappropriately, and quite clearly likes someone else, but also is depressed and won't let me in only some of my other friends, and I just don't want to through my feelings on her because it's the last thing she needs, what do I do?

I think you should tell her how you feel. I know this can be risky especially if she likes someone else but I think this can either get you somewhere or get you closure on this situation. Also don’t think a reason why she won’t let you into her problems are a bad thing, could be that she doesn’t want you to think any little of her. Just speak with her and maybe things will get better from there

- Admin Justin

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Soo I'm a bi girl, and I'm dating a demisexual girl. We're dealing with a lot of homophobia at our school, and I was wondering if you had any advice or help for us ? Any advice is welcome, it's just getting hard to go to school when I know its there.

I come from a homophobic school too, and sometimes all that homophobic trash gets me riled up. There are days when I’d love to sass em up, but I realize that I shouldn’t let how they think affect how I act or how I live my life. Love is love, and you deserve to be happy. Good luck with everything.

-🌈Admin SandeepI would like to assume this is high school kids giving you two a hard time. Because this just doesn’t fly in college. Advice is to stay strong and not to give into the hate you are getting. These people that are giving you a hard time do not really know what they are doing. Besides if they were actually Homophobic they would all run and flee at your presence--not throw hate at you both. Pure derps. - Admin Justin

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I like this guy but every time we hang out with other people around (particularly guys), he feels distant. I can't help but think that he feels like I'm flirting with others guys. after those days he always distances himself from me and I always feel like I've ruined whatever we have.. is this bad? should I talk to him about it?

Well this guy seems like he likes you and also is experiencing some self-worth issues when he see’s you with other guys. I don’t think you should feel that you ruined anything but I think you should talk to him and let him know your intentions with him or other people. This situation can be very confusing!

- Admin Justin

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So I have a friend who is a guy who I talk to everyday (I'm a girl) and we go to school together and we hang out all the time at school and we have a really playful friendship but I feel like I might be starting to like him because he's always there for me when I need him (I struggle with self harm and depression) and he's really cute sometimes and he lets me hug him whenever I want when I'm down but the thing is I like someone else.. more than I like my friend but I never see the guy I do like

I think you should be with the guy who gives you all the feels and makes you the most happy. You are free to pursue a relationship with either guy, and you can be friends with either one of course, so for right now just hang out and live life happily until you come up with the best decision. 

 -🌈Admin Sandeep

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I've been depressed for about 3 years and hardly anyone knows, and those who do think I'm 'over it' and better. But its really bad and I've tried to tell my mom but chickened out. I'm also bi and I've know that for about 2 years. How do I tell my mom

I am no expert at going to parents and confronting major issues like this. I have been there before though. Just have a talk with your mom (you can do it) and let her know what you are feeling. Your mother should comfort you and help you. Seek out her love. 

[Anyone and Everyone I encourage you to reblog this with any further help for anon]- Admin Justin

And you can always tell a friend. Sometimes telling a parent first seems a bit daunting, but you can always take little steps and work up to that point if you feel you aren’t ready.

-🌈Admin Sandeep

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Urm I like two people. I'm going out with one of those people and she's sooo happy with me. I'm happy with her. But my ex likes to drag me back. During my current relationship I've kissed my ex and told him I love him. I'm not sure if that was quilt or not? My girlfriend now is sooo pretty and I love her to pieces. But I don't know what to do about my ex. Help me?

Things are going to get confusing real fast if you succumb to your ex. I don’t think you want to hurt your girl’s feelings. I would say get away from your ex or just cease speaking with them. Be true and faithful is what I would say is the course to go.

- Admin Justin

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So i crave to feel wanted by someone. But i have one friend (who has no other friends) and i dont go to social events.. any ideas how i might meet new people? I dont want to be alone anymore, yet im struggling to meet anyone new

I feel somewhat in the same boat here. At school everyone seems very connected except for me. Talking to new people is hard but I would say gather a lot of confidence, have some talking points and be able to roll with whatever they say. Don’t give up pal. You just have to try!

- Admin Justin