#lover stuff

[jonvandernoorde]

What is humiliating about love?

"To not be loved back the same way and make an idiot of one's self in an attempt to convince the other person you are worthy of their love. Personal experience.

Orherwise love is not humilitating. If you or your partner are humiliated, there is a clear miscommunication, or serious apathy, from the one side or the other."

[jonvandernoorde]

I feel like both Jon and Gil would shush anyone who came near. Gil definitely falls asleep in weird places, and Jon would try to move him somewhere more comfortable, though depending on where Gil has tucked himself, he may not be able to. It took a while for Gil to b3 comfortable sleeping in any position other than curled into a tiny ball with his back to the wall, but now they absolutely fall asleep in the weirdest positions. I feel like they both got pretty emotional the first time they fell asleep together because it meant Gil finally felt safe with Jon. Jon is Gil's favorite pillow, and the size difference means he can totally fall asleep on top of him. Ergo, he drools on Jon's chest, and his hair gets all up in Jon's nose. These are the necessary answers. 

i love all these and have only positive commentary to add:

If Jon can't get Gil out, he will get Gil a pillow and blanket before sleeping nearby to guard him.

Gil absolutely splays all over Jon but Jon loves to cuddle and tangle their limbs together so i feel like they look like a pair of octopi.

Jon enjoys humming to a sleepy Gil and watching him sleep on top of him before falling asleep himself. Jon will be sure to give Gil gentle head pats and whisper positive affirmations every night.

Jon has no problem with any of the drooling or the hair as long as Gil can stand Jon often waking up and being "ready to go".

Gil's stuffed animal always has a place on honour on Jon's pillow.

[jonvandernoorde]

Jon, have you found you've have any issues with consent in the past or present?

"In the past there have been misunderstandings. As a sex worker, there were a number of incidents. These days I am very, very careful about complete informed consent. I usually have a sit down talk early with all my partners."

[jonvandernoorde]

Jon what is it about spanking?

"There's a sense of power and pleasure. Plus I love touching booty. Especially my lover's booty. No more justification needed."

[jonvandernoorde]

New tag "lover stuff" is for general ship stuff and ship mood posts.

[buggrl]

So my love is a Libra moon sign.

He has the same moon as my actual sign. And its funny because he says thats not him. It fits me. Then i showed him both my sign and my moon and hes says that both are me. I think its funny and cute that he doesnt think he has libra traits.

[the-occult-babe]

lover stuff

taken from deviantART 

You have a: [x] Boyfriend (i prefer to call him my mate) [] Girlfriend Mushy stuff: [x] Hugged  [x] Held hands [x] Kissed  [x] Been on at least one date [x] Told your BF/GF you love him/her   [x] Did something special on their birthday/your anniversary/Valentine's Day/Christmas/misc. [x] Shared drinks/food [x] Text/called almost every day [x] You have a special song [x] You like cuddling  [x] You like making physical contact  [x] You've been lifted or carried [x] Been given a nickname by your BF/GF [x] Your BF/GF likes to play with your hair (all the frick fracken time, hella) [x] You would do anything to make your BF/GF happy Relationship: [x] Have many things in common  [x] Been together for at least a year [x] Been together for at least six months  [ ] Broke up then got back together once-several times [x] Your friends get along with your BF/GF; Most of the time.  [x] You were friends before getting together [ ] Gone to a party with your BF/GF;  [ ] Gone to a party and got drunk with your BF/GF [ ] Gone to a party, got drunk, and had sex with BF/GF [x] Your attitude and/or behavior has changed since you two met [x] You feel happy/sad if your BF/GF is (yeah, we're pretty in tune to each other's emotions) Honesty: [ ] Got together with your BF/GF out of pity [/] Cheated (um, with the personality thing...i guess maybe? but he doesn't mind one bit) [ ] Liked someone else while dating your BF/GF [ ]Changed yourself to impress your BF/GF [x] Kept secrets (i keep like one secret) [x] Lied (when I was not fine but told him the opposite, stuff like that) [ ] Didn't tell your BF/GF something that would affect them mentally/emotionally [ ] You don't think you're good enough for your BF/GF  [x] You can say almost anything to your BF/GF   Embarrassment: [x] Cried with your BF/GF around  [x] Seen your BF/GF naked/somewhat naked (hell yeah!) [ ] Thrown up on your BF/GF [ ] You've mistaken someone else as your BF/GF, AFTER you did something affectionate with that person [x] Your BF/GF makes you blush  [x] Your BF/GF calls you cute [x] Your BF/GF does things that no one else has done to you  [x] Your BF/GF has seen a side of you no one else has Some Questions! 1. Are you straight, bisexual, homosexual, etc.?  pansexual!

2. How did you two meet? at school. it was lunch time and he sat with me outside cause i was always alone at lunch. we battled pokemon and stuff and talked about like ghosts and spooky things :3 4. How long do you plan on staying together? Thought about marriage? Kids? hopefully for a long time. both of us have thought about marrying each other. i really do want to marry this guy. kids? i dunno....

5. What do you like most about your BF/GF? uh, everything??? his eyes are to die for. i just like everything XD 6. When did you realize you liked your BF/GF? first moment he came up to me tbh. love at first sight i guess 7. What kind of hairstyle would you give your BF/GF? his hair's fine as is~! just not too short

8. Is there something you find weird about your BF/GF? nope. we're both weirdos/nerds XDD 9. If you could change anything about your BF/GF, what would you change? nothing. he's the perfect version of himself right now :) 10. Do you really love your boyfriend or girlfriend? with all my soul