AY AMBOT!
Ay ambot ! Na lang jud unsay introduction ani? Do you feel the pain? Then Hey! Welcome to change your own choice to verbalized and listened to the essential elements of the mood, characteristics, and state of the mind of the human. Ay Ambot is a term that can be used for a lot of situations for a Cebuano. Literally it means a person has no idea, but it can also be used in a lot of expressions likely similar to a no or maybe an answered to a never ending question, Ay Ambot is the solution.
There are a lot of reasons why people used ay ambot. The example of this is a given situation of a two married individuals they meet unexpectedly in a place called the land of promise, they drinking separately in a cottage with a thin layer of plywood when the guy heard a heart breaking cry of a girl he listen and walk slowly to the other side of the cottage he saw the girl’s tears so he decided to comfort her with a handkerchief she look him in the eyes and utter a thank you and tap the side of her chair ,she wants someone she can talk too she needed a friend so she said the stupidest words “can you listen to me and waste your time for my dramas in life” he nod without doubts so she told him everything of her problem ,she was a trophy wife her husband cheated on her and the man laugh and said. “We are just the same my wife abandoned me after she steal my heart. Wealth... I lost everything Iam left alone now.” they talked their heart outs with alcohols in their hands until they find the comfort of a lovable couple , they become husband and wife in just a day they felt happiness in each other hands without noticing that’s a mistake.then the disastrous began.
But no matter the circumstances, we always have the choice to say no. If needed in a crucial situation but we don’t want to tell anybody so we used ambot instantly to conceal our mistake that was committed. Everything you reason out is nothing if you used ambot in the end that word will never be okay, it never solve what is missing, it will only make the situation worst and add burden to the situation and the people involved. Having troubles with telling the truth, then find ways to fix it, if it’s irreconcilable situation have the mutual decision to end it in a good way. Close one chapter of life before writing a new one, secrets will reveal. No matter how we tried to hide the secrets, it would always find its way to revealed itself. Simply be honest in everything you say or do so you won’t have the hard time hiding your deepest secrets. If you commit mistakes, don’t conceal it with another mistake. Admit your fault, say sorry without reasoning it out, ask for forgiveness. It’s better to live carefree and fortunate. Let your values be stronger than temptations. It would never be considered sin if you won’t give in. Let temptation remain to be just a temptation. Always make decision to stay away from any deadly sins. It’s hard to do, but atleast it’s the best thing to do so. Learn to always say the truth and emphasize the big word no not the word whatever or ay ambot.Say no if must! Don’t let anyone dictate your path of choice pursue what you want in life, for as long as you are being a honest with yourself and not stepping into anyone then it’s fine, do it your way if someone tells you to do this and you’re not comfortable say no if you can’t do it be honest tell the person directly the point. Its okay to say ay ambot but it is more okay to say no because at the end of the day your honesty is your happiness that’s what truly matters most. NOW I have a question for you are you willing to do the right thing?