I have ADHD and I'm always worried about what people think about me I want to make sure everyone thinks positively of me I ask to many questions and I get laughed at I have a very hard time remembering the simplest things like dates and where I put things I always want to feel included in everything but I just end up annoying everyone I want to be less annoying what do I do?
this may sound contradicting but… be yourself without shame. not everyone will always think positively of you, that’s not possible. instead, stay true to yourself, don’t bend your needs and your personality just to suit others. if they get annoyed by that, find someone better who is worth your time.we shouldn’t always feel the need to tone ourselves down just because others may consider us “too much”. adhd is a disorder which, while having many unpleasant symptoms, makes us to who we are. it’s a pretty big part of our lives and if people can’t handle that… their loss. don’t feel pressured into changing who you are to make yourself more suitable to others. how about they try that for a change?