Changi now
Here's to another transition. Which means, a change in our marriage life too. Hubs no longer have a structured and fixed shift, where there's a pattern and i can easily predict his next shift. Changing to a company that the working shifts are unpredictable, there goes our time spending together, just us two, or family time.
I must say that this first month, i struggled. I struggled emotionally and psychologically. I had to constantly remind myself that his shifts are unpredictable and that i only managed to see him twice a week! (Read: not seeing each other and having proper conversation). Current situation is just: kiss goodnight/ morning kisses while the other party is sleeping soundly, reaching home from work, off to work & REPEAT!
His working shifts are mostly at night, and i felt quite lonely without him to share my day with, to hear my rants. I definitely appreciate every single moment we have before work starts.
May Allah make it easy for us both and always yearn for each other's love. May Allah open up his doors of Rezqi for us. Marriage is not easy and it's always possible if we both come to a consensus. May Allah blessed this marriage till Jannah. AMIN.