happy birthday dude! :D
so thte think about alwasy calling Afab trans birthday boys is it presuproses a lot bout our lived females socialized lived expriences as Afabs beacause growing up i wasn't alwasys in the time before not competely called brithday boy i was and only trans amabs got to called of being called birthday boys growing up cuz of male socialation and i think if we strated calling amab trans tirfs "birtday girls" they would probably just get gender euphoria about it which also seaks to some abmount of lived amab privledge about it which is why its apropriation to some degree for trans amab women to erase the malgendering penomenon
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and come to think about now that i think about it its also telling that the term gender euphoria evolkes the show euphoria from tv which has no trans masc afab characters but thers hunter safer and they say trans afabs arent invisble 🙄
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