#manbashing

[thesolprovider13-blog]

#Manbashing, especially black man bashing, has gone on for so long it is taken for granted. This woman, like a lot of sister's, seems to focus on the hate instead of the love. . Focusing on the negative gives it greater power. Would love to hear your thoughts. Thanks @tygryss @Regranned from @cthagod - Do some Men Love Pussy but Hate Women???? @amandaseales explains. Go watch the full interview on @breakfastclubam @youtube page now!! - #regrann

[calculated-dreamer]

Anti-Man Bashing

I see this overwhelming “fem-nazi” attitude all over Tumblr. It could be because many of the blogs I follow are women. It could be because Tumblr attracts a group that might have retreated from a life of abuse (or maybe some other reason). 

In any event, I do not approve of man-bashing and will quickly unfollow anyone who posts that trash. Please don’t send me hate mail about how women bashing is a thing as well (or give me graphic examples about how some man raped you as a child. That’s TERRIBLE, but not applicable. It was a MAN, not MEN who did that).

We’re in the 21st century and feminism has been in the lime light for YEARS. Does chauvinism still exist? Yes? Do I condone it? Nope. But let’s be REALLY clear: Bashing men because they bash or disrespect women makes YOU (man, woman, trans, fluid...etc) a bad person. It makes you a hypocrite. It perpetuates hate and lack of understanding (yes, men’s viewpoints are attacked and CONSTANTLY criticized by women and the media). This is not about “getting back at those assholes”, it’s about teaching EVERYONE to treat each other with respect.

I seriously dislike “feminism” because of how it’s bastardized and contorted into a weapon instead of a movement for equality and respect. In truth, anyone who has a vision of equality wouldn’t subscribe to a label that promotes women. They would subscribe to a label that promotes equality and respect. 

If someone (or multiple people) did something horrible to you, focus your anger (and energy towards healing) towards them and not an entire gender/sex.

[claudcamp]

Gentlemen!  Could I interest you in a lovely home located on this street?  Its just off Eunuch Memorial Dr.

[louisemnutley-blog]

Lipstick vs. Men-Bashers

Lately, it seems feminism has gone out of favor. Probably because of the stereotype that feminists are all men-bashing women who wear men's clothes and no makeup. Feminists are afraid to declare themselves because they fear they will be ridiculed by everyone, except other feminists (obviously). So a few things need to be said to set the record straight:

-Feminists can wear makeup, pink, frilly things, and high heels.

-They do not need to shun, or else pick fights with, every man in the universe

-Not all of them are women

-Not all are gay

These stereotypes are so often used, that even feminists themselves believe them. Feminists are people who believe that women should be equal to men. Not more, and not less. Feminists who believe that punishing all men is the correct path to this are mistaken. By hurting men, physically or otherwise, you are either proving to them women cannot be equal because they are too violent, or making it so that women become more powerful then men, in which case we would be in the same situation reversed. However, I'm not saying you should do nothing, just be clear on what you want, and express it in a way that no one is being harmed in the process.

[of-mine]

"Dear Men, The first jockstrap was used in Hockey in 1874 and the first helmet was used in 1974. It took 100 years for you to realize that the brain is also important.

Sincerely, Oh that's why you need me to make your sandwich."

[iquitelikeitthatway]

I just noticed how Sexist this show is!

Korean man: Your place is by my side.

UM NO!

NO IT'S NOT! SHE'S SUPERIOR TO YOU. SHE CAN SPEAK ENGLISH! YOU CAN'T! FJDKLASFJ;DK;ALFJDKLFJ;SAFA.