Firstly, I'm doing this on tumblr so you can read through this several times before responding. Also what we posted about you was public, for everyone to see so this is too. Secondly, Facebook is awful. And I hate phoning people/ texting them if its about something like this.
I'm not mad you didn't turn up to my wedding cause of this.
They say you never really know someone until you live with them. That I beleive is EXTREMELY true. I can't help but think if I didn't live with you I'd still at least be friends with you. But you wanna know why we, not just the people you live with, bitched about you on here behind your back? Well, here's a master post as to why.
1. You always have to be right.
It didn't matter if it was about something in class or something in general you always have to be right. This was the foremost thing that annoyed me about you. You argued with teachers over their marking of your work to me whether China was an Empire. Which is wasn't.
Even after you'd argue a point to death regardless if you were wrong or right, you'd go to google to prove it HALF AN HOUR AFTER THE ARGUMENT IS OVER AND WE DIDN'T CARE ANY MORE. You even said after you argued with Ren once, and (she backed down because arguing with you is fucking pointless) 'Hahaha I won'. You won what? Why do you have to win? Is your ego so big that you have to be the best at everything at the expense of your friends?
2. You are hypocritical and two faced
You might say I am too, and I'll admit I am hypocritical sometimes, e.g I hate seeing clothes on the floor but I'll leave clothes on floor in my own room.
Examples of time when you were hyporcritical; complaining about the kitchen not being clean when the majority of the time with was your shit everywhere and your mess on the sides. Between me, Em and Ren we've had to stop each other cleaning up after you. When we did it was so we could use the freaking kitchen. And I may have left stuff on the side but I had to hold down a part time job, study and find time to eat and chill out. Remember when you refused to join the washing up rota? Because you "Didn't want to tidy up after people who were being lazy when you could be studying". Studying? You mean wasting time of Facebook. I'm glad you didn't join up otherwise nothing would of gotten washed when it was your turn.
Example of you being two faced; you said I/ we could talk to you if something was bothering us, even when it's something you've done. And yet you turned round as said you 'Didn't care if you upset people'. Now, I dunno if you have some sort of context behind that statement but for me for the entirety of this year meant I couldn't tell you when you were being annoying. Therefore I could only to the other guys in the house and it ended up being 'bitching'.
3. You never seem to find your own interests/ ideas, you're always piggy backing other peoples.
But not in the 'Hey I like this thing too, can you tell me more about it/ reccomend something', more like "HEY I LIKE THIS THING NOW IM GUNNA TAKE THE THING AND ANNOY YOU ABOUT IT WHEN I COULD JUST GO AWAY AND RESEARCH IT". Lemme list a few things, Tails, Owl bags, nail art, One OK Rock, satchel bags, hair stuff, other j-rock stuff in general, New Girl, comic book stuff and very almost video games. You can argue no ones ideas are original, and that's true. I only really picked up on gaming until my husband got me more interested in it. But at the end of the year you ended up having a weird miss-match mix of everyone's interests. None of them seemed to be your own. Which irks me. I managed to pick up a bunch of interests on my own. Like getting into accapella robots, Game of Thrones, Hannibal and back into Mad Men.
This one probably one of the stupidest things to be annoyed at you about but it still annoys me.
Those are the main things. There were other little things too like leaving your stuff all over the living/ taking up space in the living room when you have your room for that. Going in the shower with your boyfriend for hours and using up the hot water. Commenting on stuff on Facebook that didn't concern you or commenting with irrelevant stuff in class( Film class? No one cares that you saw a film that was like this American film. Jacoby clearly didn't when he was trying to do a lecture). Like my Hen night thing. Or responding to things without reading/ listening them properly. Like how most of the arguments on the Japanese Society page started or people getting annoyed at you in class. Getting annoyed at people on fb for constantly changing their FB profile picture like their underwear WHEN YOU DO EXACTLY THE SAME. (Your facebook statuses I've noticed paint a different picture to who you are I've noticed).
Honestly, you were a good friend for the first year. There was always something that annoyed me about you but I pushed to the back of my mind because I like seeing the good in people. But then your true colours came out. Some of the things that I've said annoyed me about you may have not been directed at me necessarily, but the way you treated other people in the house made me think 'Do I really want to be friends with someone like that?'
We've had our good times. But the bad things out weigh them me if in my opinion.
I've probably done things that annoyed the crap outta you, but then you never said anything to me. You did come to me if you did have a problem with the other girls and I told you to talk to them.So this is me talking to you in a way that is comfortable for me.
I wanted to have some sorta resolution to this so the fourth year isn't going to be horrible awkward/ standoffish. And because of that I'm sorry our friendship had to end in this messy awkward way.
This is also probably horribly written... but I cba to back through all of that and edit it.
