Hi there! Hope you're having a good day. I saw your post about answering any questions about asexuality. I don't really have any specific questions, just interested in hearing about your experiences regarding the subject. Was there a time of coming-out, how did people react? Do you experience romantic attractions? I really hope I'm not crossing any lines or boundaries, I'm just interested. Also, what's your favorite color and what bands are you into at the moment? Happy asexual awareness week!
Hi there! No, not crossing any boundaries; I think it’s awesome that you are interested. :)
Ok, first off, no I’m not really “out” because of various reasons…a couple friends know I’m thinking asexual is probably what I am. I really hope that if/when I come out as ace my family and other friends take it well.
Secondly, I think I experience romantic attractions. But I’ve never actually been in a romantic relationship soo…yeah. But the idea of romance does not weird me out/repulse me as I’ve read happens with aromantics. Lately I’ve been thinking that I might be panromantic as I have been aesthetically attracted to all genders at some point…I honestly don’t care about gender as it applies to hypothetical relationships, because I don’t really care about sex. If that makes any sense.
My favorite colors are…errr…purple and green! (and red. and blue. And heck yeah color is awesome!) Also, bands, um…I recently discovered Marina and the Diamonds and loved some of her songs. Also, Daughter, for moody days. And Finish Ticket and Acceptance are also recent finds.
Finally, thank you for this super cool ask.