#manifestingwithdepression

[shellydonna]

What to do, when you try to manifest something instantly and "it didn't work"

First of all yes, I understand that you're not supposed to "try to manifest.", because you just have it or you don't.

A couple of days ago, I had this very question. And no one had an answer, but now I have it.

Manifesting on a time crunch, manifesting with a deadline, manifesting something in 24 hours,

And 'failing'.

When this happens, it's important to remember, that it isn't true failure, unless you say it is.

You haven't failed.

Your reality simply didn't reflect what you wanted, at the time you wanted it to.

And why?

You did everything right, so why?

Manifestation is more than doing, it's being.

Reality needs something to reflect.

It reflects you.

So if it didn't reflect your desire at that time, it simply means that internally, that reflection didn't exist.

If you imagined smiling while standing in front of the mirror, but you didn't smile in front of the mirror, then you won't see a smile in the reflection.

But anyways, that's not the point.

The point is, you can still have things work out.

For as long as you are alive and sentient. You can still have what you want.

There a million things that can happen and ways for it to work out.

Endless, limitless possibilities.

The past can change, the present can be adjusted.

Even if the deadline has passed.

Hope is not lost. Hope is not gone.

All you need to tell yourself now,

is that everything is going to work out.

And if you don't understand how? Exactly.

"I don't understand how it could ever possibly work out, but it will."

You tell the story.

Reality will always do everything in its 'power'/ ability to reflect your story.

And if you don't believe it? Exactly then.

"I might not believe it, but it will still work out."

And if you feel hopeless or devastated, or tired, or miserable.

Well then.

"No matter how I'm feeling right now, things will work out somehow, and I'll still end up having the outcome that I wanted."

Time is now out the window... well at least, the time you had set.

Right in this present moment right now, things are still working out.

Because your efforts,

They don't just disappear.

Let's see it as this,

You weren't fully changed internally, so it caused a,

Delay.

The delay is not outside, it's on the inside, it's a delay within you.

You know how I know for sure?

A person that has truly changed, is not bothered when reality doesn't reflect the change.

If you are truly fulfilled within, you would see reality not instantly reflecting that, as a malfunction that will be corrected shortly.

Not a loss, not failure. Not a grievance.

Technically, you were still gonna get it anyway, but probably right after you already thought you lost, or it seemed as if you lost.

But if you now persist in thinking you have lost, that will be reflected.

And why would that be reflected when thinking the opposite wasn't reflected immediately?

Because your internal being, is more aligned with not having it, or not having been succesful,

thus reality/ the mirror, will reflect that immediately.

But if you, in these critical moments right now, (where you technically still have your desire, you just don't see it, because it's past the time you had planned,)-

If you, tell yourself it will all work out right now. It will work out as it was already going to.

Don't let the time fool you.

Don't let the illusion of failure fool you.

You still have it. It can still work out.

There is still hope.

Don't give up, because of a malfunction.

If you click on something on your phone screen and it doesn't immediately open, do you immediately crash out throw your phone and give up?? (If you do do that, well damn😭😭)

But anyway, for the ones that don't. You click on it again right? Because you expect it to work. Exactly. Reality should reflect you, that's what it does, has always done, and can't not do. That's its only function.

So just tell yourself right now, that you are still gonna get what you want, and that things are still going to work out.

Because these things can be really frustrating, confusing, and disappointing.

But they're not hopeless, not solved, not concluded.

You conclude it, you solve it, you decide whether there's still hope.

Because there always is.

There will still be hope until you crush it yourself.

Having your desire already was there first, that was the original default outcome.

That outcome only changes if you fall for the illusion,

The illusion that you didn't get what you want,

Just because you didn't see it at that planned time.

Don't fall for it, you still have it.

Tell yourself it's gonna work out.

Because in the background, it already has.

If you really did do everything 'right'.

It already has. Just don't change the story that was already set for you, the story where you still win.

"It will work out, everything is gonna be okay."

You might now know how, where, when, you might not believe it, you might not feel it.

But that's all because of the illusion.

Don't fall for it. And don't conclude the opposite of what you want because of it.

Conclude that even after all this, you still absolutely will have what you want.

And whatever the situation is, it will work out.

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[shellydonna]

You can manifest what you want even if you feel like this right now.

Your pain can be temporary, if you think some long term good thoughts to change your life/ your specific situation that you'd like to change.

[shellydonna]

Pro-tip: if you're desperate for your desire and you really genuinely need it as soon as possible (or at a certain time) and it's stressing you and worrying you, but you're still trying to manifest it,

Here are some things to think repeatedly:

"I got it exactly at the time I needed it the most."

"I was so worried and stressed out about the time/deadline but I still got it exactly at the time I needed to have it."

"I was so desperate for results but I still got them at the exact time I needed it."

"I got everything I wanted right when I needed it."

[shellydonna]

What are you telling yourself about a certain circumstance, situation or person in your life?

That IS manifesting.

Literally anything you dominantly think in your mind, over and over, you think about it a lot, you're very focused on it,

That is something that is/becomes manifested in your reality.

Pay attention to the stories you tell yourself about things, they will reflect in your life.

Change the stories you tell yourself if you want the story to be different.

If you want the story to be different, tell it to yourself differently.

[shellydonna]

So as it turns out...

Persisting in having what you want isn't the most important.

'Ignoring'/ not reaffirming the old reality is the most important.

To explain it in short as simply as I possibly can:

Affirming and visualizing and any other method is for fun.

But the true hidden mechanic behind manifestation is that the millisecond that you have a desire for literally anything in this entire world, it immediately becomes the most readily available possibility for you.

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For example:

let's say you were a student, and you wanted to become a doctor.

Current reality: student

Most possible & probable reality besides this one: becoming a doctor

Another reality that's also possible:

Teacher.

The reality where you're a teacher, although possible, is highly unlikely to happen because you want to be a doctor. So the moment you stop observing a reality where you're not or where it's not possible for you, the next thing you'll experience is being a doctor.

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Now that we've cleared that up.

Let's make a universal guide, call this

LOW EFFORT MANIFESTING

1. First of all understand that you don't need to "create" what you want, and that it is already an available possibility and probability for you.

2. Your current reality.

Specifically whatever it is in your current reality that is the opposite of your desire you must ignore.

Do not vent about it to friends or anyone.

Do not argue about it or analyze it.

Do not spend your time overthinking or ruminating about it.

And also, do not affirm, because affirming might make you feel like you're working for it. And you don't need to work for it because it is already yours.

**when you have to deal with the opposite thing physically:

Do it neutrally. (Stop judging it as bad or negative just look at it as something that just is)

See it as temporary and changeable.

Look at it from the perspective of someone who is about to experience what they want instead of this.

3. Do not do any methods. This is unnecessary because with low effort manifesting the underlying mechanic is: "what you want is already yours, you simply ignore the reality where it isn't yours, and then you'll see the reality where it is yours."

Let me try to illustrate it rq..

See your current reality as a layer in an onion.

The next layer is always the reality where you have what you want. (It's always like this by default)

And when you ignore your current reality where you don't physically have what you want, you're essentially letting the first layer rot, until you see the next one.

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Speaking of layers.

You can still affirm and visualize and not do low effort manifesting. But it'll be easier now because you understand that when you are affirming and visualizing, you are thinking/speaking of and seeing something in your mind that is already yours, and ignoring the opposite of it, is what makes it become physical.

So again here's the formula:

Having a desire + ignoring the physical lack/absence of it = having your desire

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Traditional law of assumption formula:

Understanding that you already have what you want as long as you ignore lacking it physically (3D) + affirming visualizing or doing other methods simply for the fun of immersing yourself in what you want = having it

But at the end of the day it was never the methods that got you what you wanted.

It was your desire already existing as a possibility for you,

And whatever it took to make you ignore the physical reality that shows the lack of it,

That's what made it happen.

[shellydonna]

Even if you're in a dire, serious, dangerous situation, you can survive it and you CAN manifest getting out of it.

People have cured themselves of terminal illnesses, manifested a house for themselves when they were homeless, manifested getting out of an abusive household, people have revised their loved one's death and accidents as well, people have manifested not getting their body parts amputated, people cured themselves of blindness with manifestation.

Any horrible thing you can think of, somebody's probably done their way out of it!

You're not the first to be in this situation.

Don't give up on yourself no matter how hard it gets, no matter how serious it is, even if it literally makes you suicidal.

DON'T give up.

If you want a better life and you want out,

DON'T give up.

You have your mind.

You can escape, you can fix this,

You CAN get better, you can be cured,

You CAN be free, you CAN survive,

You can do this.

[shellydonna]

HOW TO MANIFEST IF YOU ARE FEELING SUICIDAL.

This is for the people who know about loa, but have mental health problems, and or physical health problems/ are just living a really hard life.

Sometimes you're suicidal because you feel deep emotional pain, or intense suffering internally, or because you feel worthless, or because you feel exhausted and like you don't have a purpose. ¹

And sometimes, you feel suicidal because circumstances are so so bad, that dying is better. Or dying seems like the only way out or the best way. ²

So that's 1. And that's 2.

Group number 1. Is the first paragraph, and group 2. is the second paragraph.

What I have to say about the second paragraph is very controversial but because I was there i will say it anyway.

If it's really that bad and you gotta go, you gotta go,

manifest respawning to a better reality.

And honestly that naturally happens if you die with the intention of going to a better place, you will end up in a better place.

And that's respawning too.

Now, if you're from group 2. And you don't want to die, you just feel like it because things are that bad,

Then let's go about how to manifest yourself happier and free.

What I'm about to say might be unexpected, but,

it's actually easier to manifest, the more dire your situation is.

When you have NOTHING to lose. You don't have time to waver or think opposing thoughts.

When you really have a will to live and survive, you won't think of anything else.

And that's the thing,

I'm adressing the people who are in those situations, but don't have a complete will to live.

In extreme circumstances you have to be very focused on your 3D so,

Make mental plans on how you navigate the circumstances in the smartest, and safest way possible.

And whenever you have even a second of peace and if not peace, if not sleep, then at least quiet. (If you're that lucky).

Use those little moments, to imagine a better life or escaping.

And sometimes imagining isn't a picture or a visual scene in your mind, sometimes it's a thought, and a feeling.

Whatever it is, conjure up the feeling of being relieved, being saved.

You don't need the feeling to manifest, you need the feeling, to inspire your will to live.

The moment your will to live is secured,

You will be UNSTOPPABLE.

You just have to want to live group 2.

That's all you need. And only YOU know why you would want to live.

The smallest thing I can say to help with that is,

Think about the things you wanted before you were in this situation, or the things you always wanted, and you would've been able to have them, if you weren't in this situation.

Think about that, and realize that technically;

Anything in this world that you might find worthwhile, the only way to experience it, is if you live.

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Now onto group 1.

Being suicidal goes hand in hand, with being fed up, tired, or some type of hate for yourself, and a whole lot of other things that would genuinely make manifesting what you want, different and perhaps more difficult.

But we can use it, we can use it with some satire, reel thoughts.

"Man life is worth living again cause my SP said he/she/they like me back."

"Man life is worth living again cause my SP asked me out."

"You know what? I DO wanna live, cause I woke up like this." (Implying that you woke up with a glow up/your desired appearance)

"You know what? I'm too beautiful/handsome/hot/cute/pretty to die."

"Shitt I can't kms yet cause *insert your desired event* happened"

"Damnit! Now I can't die anymore cause I got everything on my wishlist/list."

"Well guess I gotta stay alive now cause I got "XYZ" "

You get it right? sarcastic and satire thoughts like this. Usually depressed and suicidal people are already sarcastic and satire and unserious about things, so I think this will feel natural to you.

Now on a more serious note, let's adress the feeling of being suicidal and how to deal with it, WHILE you manifest.

Either visualise, or say affirmations that imply or conjure up feelings.

"I finally wanna be alive." (Song reference)

"I don't wanna die anymore."

"Life is worth living again, I didn't know I would be happy again but I am."

"I actually did end up being okay."

And visualising is just imagining something that has the same vibes as the affirmations I just used, and feeling that feeling of not wanting to die anymore.

And listen to beautiful music.

When you're depressed and suicidal, you might consume content that relates to that.

STOP.

Stop it get some help.

And listen to songs that are basically hopecore, songs that sound positive,

Songs that your brain has been socialised to see as beautiful, heart touching, positive.

Make a hopecore playlist.

And here's a song that specifically relates to being suicidal but it's the part where he doesn't wanna die anymore.

You can visualise while listening to music it really CHANGES your feelings.

And that's the goal of all of this.

Changing your feelings and outlook on life WHILE manifesting your desires.

It's a win win.

Here's another song to visualise to, this song can be sad or happy, depends on how you look at it. Use it to visualise you getting better and being a better happier version of yourself, wanting to live FINALLY.

I linked a couple good songs.

And yeah,

You can totally manifest the life you're worthy of living; a life worth living.

[shellydonna]

Pro-tip; if you feel down and low & demotivated & discouraged while manifesting, listen to dopamine or serotonin morphic fields on YouTube, sometimes they have frequency Hz energy fields too, just search it up, and affirm while you listen.

And you don't HAVE to affirm while you listen, it's only if you feel like you can't bring yourself to affirm, like you don't have energy.

Listening to these types of fields in general helps.