MANIFESTING FOR SOCIOPATHS... like, manifesting for dummies but sociopaths... get it?!
ANGEL'S MANIFESTING GUIDE 👱🏼♀️🪽
Do you feel like you are confident in your manifestation abilities, but once you see something that contradicts your affirmations you get upset and spiral? Do you struggle to manifest another person to like/love you, and then in turn actually feel it BACKFIRE and feel like YOU’RE the one who’s obsessed? Do you feel like you’re relinquishing your power and control the moment you get upset and spiral backwards with negative/contradictory affirmations?
You don’t HAVE to be a sociopath to read this or learn from it, this is ALSO for people who struggle with manifesting and experience the same problems listed above as well as many others. I don’t beat around the bush so let’s get to it.
Being sociopathic makes the way I manifest slightly different from others. My reasons for wanting things are totally different from others, the way I think about people and the world is totally different than a normal person’s. Now, obviously I'm a sociopath, BUT I am highly functional and live and work like everyone else in society. But manifesting (people especially) was a huge challenge for that exact reason.
A sociopathic, or even just a mentally ill brain is fundamentally different from a normal person's brain, so we literally cannot apply that same generic advice of “affirm and persist” with no other context. The Law [of assumption] works for everyone, period. but everyone's internal wiring is different and THAT affects the amount of time it takes to manifest successfully.
I find that trying to apply the everyday regular advice of manifesting or dating seemingly backfires on a sociopath. When I try to manifest a specific person by: including their name in my affirmations, focusing all my power onto them and attracting them, and affirming/thinking of them ALL THE TIME WHENEVER I GET THE CHANCE...I found myself closely monitoring; checking my phone constantly, asking them weird questions, stalking social medias. Now what does that sound like to you? Obsession, maybe. But on the inside I was actually collecting data, watching closely for movement or progression of my manifestation. Maybe i dont even actually want the person, i want them just to say i have them. Sometimes, I manifest just to prove/ feel that i’m powerful, but then i get too invested by closely monitoring progress. And then I would snap out of it and think “wtf am I doing?!” and then psyche myself out by saying “im acting obsessed… am I???” and then I would spiral backwards. Now, those kinds of feelings/thoughts never go well with female hormones. I find that when I’m ovulating (craving emotional closeness and warmth which isn’t what I want, but what my BODY wants) I get more emotional involuntarily, the “obsession” illusion is now heightened, and then I feel like my control has been given up completely.
This isn't earth-shattering news, but something might click. ⬇️
First of all, take everything you’ve heard about manifesting and throw it away. Act like this is all you’ve ever known about it. Ok? Ok. shove all that old info up your ass- JUST forget about it because you're not them, it doesn't apply.
I realized that I needed to take the focus OFF of what I wanted (or DIDNT want), and put it all back on me. When I feel powerful or in control, I manifest so much easier and quicker. Manifesting smaller “insignificant things” (i.e. a cup of coffee, a specific compliment, etc.) is so much easier because I feel like I am ABOVE IT and i feel like its EASY FOR ME TO HAVE.
Put the focus back on you. give yourself your power back. Literally nobody is taking it from you. It’s YOU psyching yourself out, telling yourself that one negative spiral leads to your entire manifestation progress being fucked up. Don’t feed that bullshit, turn your attention to YOU and put yourself at the epicenter of your spiritual world.
You need to only focus on you and stop saying super specific affirmations about things outside of you. Start identifying as a person who always gets what they want. (you identify by affirming, this isnt rocket science) If its a significant other or friends you want, identify as someone who is hot and sociable, someone who everyone is easily obsessed with. By literally saying “I am someone who everyone is obsessed with” its a general statement that does a few things:
Puts the focus entirely on me.
Restores my power as a manifester.
Restores my power in a social setting because confidence is power.
Makes it feel obtainable/easy to get.
Makes you feel MORE THAN WORTHY of having it.
See how that one affirmation changes everything around and DOES the work for you? Keep building yourself up, keep thinking + repeating these things and you will be treated as such in the outer world. PLUS, you don’t even have to sweat thinking about every single little detail outside of you. Blanket affirmations people…blanket affirmations. We call this “self-concept” but I’m gonna need you… yes you specifically to STOP thinking of manifesting and self-concept as separate things, and ONLY manifest THROUGH self-concept. That’s the only way you’re doing shit from now on. No more “methods” no more mindless scrolling tumblr for normal people’s different takes. You are all that matters because this is YOUR life.
Thinking of what you want all the time as if you have it ( affirming) will work no matter what because the law CANNOT fail. Which is a comforting fact. BUT, it'll take longer BECAUSE you keep wavering; like falling back into the old story once one little thing doesn't go your way (which is totally normal for a sociopath…or just a spoiled child lol). All that wavering makes shit take so much longer because of how our brains work. Anyone else could just apply "affirm and persist" and get what they want by being a healthy, normal person.
When I say only focus on you, I MEAN THAT SHIT. Do not check the 3D, do not ask yourself if its working, do not see manifestation as something that occurs OUTSIDE of you. You are a one-man band.
you can manifest everything at once, and even end up manifesting things you DIDN'T even know you wanted by thinking of YOU. You have to focus on yourself rather than the specific thing, or else you WILL lose your shit i know from experience.
If you are not a confident person, its gonna be weird and a little hard to do this and think this way. But I’m telling you, selfish people win all the time. Spiritually thinking selfishly works wonders for manifesting things, but psychologically you'll feel safest and most comfortable thinking for yourself. Start living for YOURSELF. Once you worry about external shit like what someone thinks of you, you're giving up your power and I know you feel it in your chest and gut whenever that thought crawls in your brain.
This is already long, but you get my point: focus only on you, get a little (or a lot) cocky, do not hone in and focus on one thing. You get so much more out of thinking about yourself rather than focusing on one thing in specific.
Before you go, here are some affirmations to take with you:
I am sought after, desired, chased, obsessed over.
I am the prize, and i am always treated as such.
I identity as someone who always gets what they want.
Opportunities, money, and people are desperately throwing themselves at me.
Everything i want wants me a million times more.
It’s a privilege to be around me, talk to me, be in my space.
I have this unstoppable habit of always getting my way.
I am a gorgeous queen and everything that enters my life is of queen standards.
There’s nothing and nobody more important than me.
The world revolves around me.
