kink/limit list
this list is extremely subjective/personal and is likely to change over time, but i thought it may be interesting to share
i have no issues involving interacting with people who may have kinks that are on my limit lists, but i do ask that if you message me regarding anything on any of these lists please take care when discussing any soft limits and do not discuss any hard limits with me- thank you,
anything marked with an asterisk applies only to fiction
turn ons/kinks:
praise
biting/hickeys
terato/exo/xenophilia, monsterfucking*
primalplay
petplay
knots/knotting
teasing, stimulation/pleasure/orgasm control
overstimulation
(light) bondage; especially collars and gags
oral fixation
cheirophilia, fingers in mouth
cumplay, creampies, snowballing, cumflation
facefucking
scratching
begging
obedience/discipline, training, brat taming
saliva/drooling
dacryphilia
breeding, heats/ruts, a/b/o
impactplay (spanking, slapping)
soft limits:
inspection/examination
pleasure/orgasm denial, edging
sensory deprivation
degradation/humiliation
public, voyeurism/exhibitionism, video/audio recording, photography
rough sex, painplay, sadomasochism
medicalplay/medfet, surgery*
gore/organs, bloodplay, cardiophilia, consensual cannibalism*
odontophilia
knifeplay
somnophilia
stuckage
hairpulling
aphrodisiacs
corruption/innocence
mindbreak/conditioning/brainwashing/hypnosis, dehumanization, dollification
cnc/dubcon
fighting
double penetration
oviposition
fearplay/edgeplay
size difference
speech restriction
alt breathplay (corsets, gags)
boots/shoes, socks/stockings, being stepped on
foodplay*
tempplay (ice, wax)
anal*
body writing
e-stim
being spit on
gunplay*
suspension play*
body modification (piercing, tattooing, branding, scarification)*
being shared/free use*
hard limits:
misgendering, detransitioning, sissification
unsanitary situations, watersports/scat/vomit, etc
raceplay
bimbofication/dumbification
cheating
fisting
choking
feederism
feet
figging
pregnancy
birth
burning
hooks
sounding
vore
ageplay
