No one is perfect. With that in mind, what do you see as Rita's weaknesses?
OUT OF STICKY BUNS :: This took me far too long to get to, and I’m sorry for that! This is actually something I’ve wanted to have an excuse to talk about for a while, now, so I’m really grateful that you sent this in. Thank you so much!
I’ve said this before, but one of the reasons I adore Rita is that she’s a very dynamic, complex, contradictory character - which makes her very human, to me. So while she’s a warm, friendly, empathetic person, that certainly isn’t all there is to her - and sometimes, her good traits (her strengths) can backfire on her to become weaknesses, too.
A good example of that last point is that Rita has a very clear sense of right and wrong, and a tendency for speaking up when she feels the need to. However, her interpretation of situations isn’t always right, and as such she can be pretty quick to pass judgement. While she tends to rectify these misunderstandings after the fact, Rita’s temper (which can be pretty short at times) is a huge weakness; she can be quick to react, and very argumentative when she sets her mind to it. And for all her empathy, she can be pretty critical when she’s taken against someone. When something really winds her up she can be quite aggressive, too.
She’s impatient and impulsive (although the latter can have some benefits!), and she’s something of a perfectionist - which can sometimes cause her to lose sight of the bigger picture, and it also means she sometimes puts work ahead of everything else, in a bad way. She can be a bit touchy, a bit too opinionated, and she’s definitely sarcastic, and sharp. She’s stubborn as hell, too, which definitely isn’t always a good thing.
Though she’s clearly more naturally optimistic than a certain other character we could mention here, there’s a cynicism to Rita that makes her a little more reluctant and closed off than she can first appear - because she’s so positive and friendly towards people. That stems from some of her past experiences with people; she’s been hurt before, and while she doesn’t hold one person’s actions against the other people she knows, it has made her more cautious than she used to be. This also means she can be quite reluctant to give second chances, when people have really messed up.
She’s an emotional person (even aside from the temper mentioned above!), and she’s had to learn the hard way that being open-hearted can be a weakness just as much as it is a strength, sometimes. Essentially, she sometimes finds it hard to tread the line between being vulnerable in a good way, and in a way that leaves her open to getting hurt. Even though she’s definitely a romantic at heart, she’s pretty sceptical when it comes to romantic relationships now. She recognises that she’s closed herself off from romance in a lot of the more... Serious ways, in her heart, and she sees this as a weakness in herself because she feels it means she’s letting what has happened to her in the past change who she is.
She’s contradictory, though, so as well as being closed off and cynical to some degrees, she also ends up chiding herself for being a little too wishful - too romantic, possibly holding people to ridiculous standards both to try and stop herself from getting hurt again, and because there’s too much of a romantic streak in her heart.
It’s hard to talk about character weaknesses - especially ones that can sometimes be strengths as well, or ones that require a bit of an explanation - without sounding like you’re making excuses for them. The thing with Rita, though, is that she’s pretty self-aware; for the most part she knows what her weaknesses are, and while she tries her best to be better (to be a good person, at the end of the day) she’s only human. For every time her stubbornness has helped her out, there’s been a time when it has caused problems for her either personally or professionally. Etcetera, etcetera. Although we should be honest, here: just because she acknowledges her weaknesses, that doesn’t mean she’s always going to be able to keep a handle on her temper, for example!