I'm trying to decide in between turn ons as in "actions someone would perform that would be a turn on", and "traits/characteristics that turn me on". I guess I can mix it up:
Excitement + Competence! If you are excited about a thing, and devote time to it and are pretty good at it, dang that is hot. I guess this is more about excitement. I love people who are passionate and interested in subjects and people and talk books for hours and just :D
I really like clavicles. I don't know why. It's a perfect place to nibble.
Very mild rope bondage which is more about trusting and nothing to do with the SM side of kink. It's surprisingly hard to find good smut and videos for this :/
Sweet + funny is a great combination in bed.
This is hard. I have like, several locations I love but a single favourite place is... hmm... I think I had the best time when I lived in Boston. That probably counts.
37. Tattoos and piercing I want
I think I've mentioned before that I've been thinking offhandedly about getting a helix piercing on both ears. I've been too lazy to do so.
As for tattoo? An anklet of amino acids spelling out "I AM STAR STUFF". I've reached the point where I am pretty sure I will get it, I just need to figure out what style I want it in, and to choose a good tattoo artist. It's been 2 years out of my minimum three to be able to get one.
140. Where do I want to live when older?
Fuck if I know :| I suppose the USA would work best.
149. What my greatest achievements are.
I am me and I am realizing that I am pretty happy about that, depressive episodes nothwithstanding. I went to freaking Vassar, and freaking graduated with a decent GPA even while fighting through depression and insomnia. People consistently like me for reasons I can respect. I've stayed pretty true to myself.
154. Something I fantasize about.
Trust? Stability. Having all my friends in one gigantic house living together but independently. Or maybe not one gigantic house, but in a neighbourhood. Sex stuff! Being super badass forever.
No seriously, I have fantasized about being the badass biology professor in a small liberal arts college that still dyes her hair at 55 and looks amazing while dispensing exciting tidbits of knowledge and mentoring awesome students who come into her care.