Twenty-three countries in my 19 years of living – not bad! When I was younger, I never really understood how important traveling is. It is pretty normal for kids to be closed-minded because most of the time, we refuse to see the bigger picture. Through my years of traveling to different places around the world, my experiences in the Malasimbo Music and Arts Festival, Red Light District Tour in Amsterdam, and traveling to see the Northern Lights in Iceland completely changed me as a person. Being complacent would have never granted me my open and free spirit.
My parents are always open to new experiences as long as they know I would learn from it. My mom was intrigued by the Malasimbo Music and Arts Festival – a festival with local and international performers done in an amphitheatre surrounded with art sculptures in Puerto Galera, Philippines. This was the year 2014 during my third year in high school. I was quite naïve to think that it was simply just a night of music. My mom came across a familiar smell and she told me to take a sniff as well. It smelled like an herb and as soon as I saw where it was coming from, I immediately ran to my mom. Marijuana was something that I was not really exposed to, although I have heard of it from time to time I still felt a bit tense because I had a clouded idea of it – that it was illegal. My parents helped me get through my tension by keeping calm and telling me that it was only wrong if I use it for the wrong ways. This was when I first opened my eyes to unfamiliar yet extraordinary things. I learned that being afraid of the unknown will not only stun my intellectual and emotional growth, but will also teach me to be complacent.
Malasimbo Music and Arts Festival, Puerto Galera (2014)
As we got older, we started taking on heavier trips. Our first trip to Europe was a completely different sight to see. Aside from its mix of gothic, renaissance, and modernism, the state of the places itself felt more liberal. Amsterdam, known for legalizing marijuana and prostitute workers, made me more eager to wander off and explore the environment and most importantly, how people lived. The Red Light District, a neighborhood where there is an abundance of sex shops, brothels, and “windows” for prostitutes is one of the most famous tourist attractions in Amsterdam. Of course, we could not visit Amsterdam without taking the tour; we are old enough anyway.
While walking through the streets, I came across many sex shops with hanging condoms as decors, marijuana cafés, and huge glass windows where the prostitute models for the public. At around nine o’clock, the prostitutes started showing themselves. They were wearing provocative underwear and heavy makeup; I noticed that a number of them were transgender. This is where I felt a huge wave of culture shock hitting and making me stumble. Never in my life have I seen a woman voluntarily exposing herself for a living. The tour guide thoroughly explained how the whole process of prostitution goes and she even took us to the Prostitute Information Center (PIC) where it serves as a help and guidance center for the prostitutes and it also informs people, most especially tourists, about the whole matter. After the tour, I gained respect for sex workers because to them, the act of prostitution is simply business.
Condomerie (condom store) in the Red Light District, Amsterdam (2015)
Prostitute Information Center (PIC) in the Red Light District, Amsterdam (2015)
One of my favorite informational channels would be National Geography. I was watching an episode about the Aurora Borealis or the Northern Lights. I instantly fell in love with how the luminous lights danced around the sky like it was so happy to visit our atmosphere. Ever since then, I started studying and painting this unique phenomenon. It made it to the number one on my 12 year-old bucket list and it remains number one up until today. On the month of December year 2015, my mom read about how the Northern Lights will start to fade after 2015 because it will be following its 15-year cycle. She immediately had to book us tickets to catch this stunning phenomenon in Iceland a.k.a. my ultimate dream. My mom patterns our long trips to 2 weeks at most, spending 2-4 days in one place or country and move on to the next.
I have always believed in the law of attraction because every time I apply it, it works. There was never a day wherein I have not imagined myself seeing the lights with my own eyes. My mom allotted five days to catch its timing, which she said is usually the average number of days. The forecast for the first three days were cloudy skies; I was starting to get quite nervous because I only had two days left. I thought to myself that I could not afford to miss my dream; I was only one step away. I checked the predicted forecast for the next two days which then made me more disappointed that I already was. It is impossible for us not to see it. How could we? Our trip was centered on it. My parents noticed my disappointment and said that to miss the lights is a frequent matter to most tourists because we are not in control of nature; however, to miss the present happenings around me due to my disappointment is an unfortunate loss because I am aware to be in control of it. I conditioned myself to think less about missing the lights for the next two days and rather to focus on being mindful of the present and what the universe is giving to me.
View of Reykjavic, Iceland (2015)
Ice glacier in the south part of Iceland
Silfra Fissure - snorkeling between two tectonic plates (Europe and North America)
Coming across unfamiliar happenings can always get uneasy at first. Only when you accept to proceed to learn with good intentions will you gain true knowledge and understanding. Being raised by open-minded parents gave me the freedom to accept things as they are. Traveling enabled the universe to show me the different ways of living – how it does not aim to please nor be perfect. As badly as we want to hold on to our values, certain situations will challenge you to let go in order to see things in a different light. I learned that walking in a straight line will only show you the same view. Throwing shade at something you do not like will only get you to attract the negative. I have developed to grant peace, mindfulness, and respect to the nature of the things happening around me and I am thankful that I did not have it any other way.