the mind is everything. what you think, you become: a guide to meditation ~
what is meditation?
meditation is awareness. it is taking our attention away from the external world and bringing it into ourselves. it is a means of transforming the mind and training in awareness. it encourages and helps to develop concentration, clarity, emotional positivity, and a calm seeing of the true nature of things.
we only truly have control of our own self. with meditation, we can help to cultivate awareness of our own thoughts and actions in the present moment.
as a beginner, it may be difficult to focus and have a clear mind. just remember, it is okay for your mind to wander during meditation, you can’t expect it not to. by continuing to pull the focus away from your thoughts and onto your breath, you are training your mind to focus on the present moment. this will make it easier to do in your everyday life because your mind is used to it.
different types of meditation
concentration meditation:
begin by focusing on a single point. this can be the breath, repeating a mantra, staring at a candle flame or an object in the room, etc. continue to refocus your awareness as you catch your mind wandering to different thoughts.
this is the process of letting your thoughts go, and it will help you do the same in your day to day life. when you are put into a situation where something is upsetting you, or bothering you, you may find it easier to learn to let it go. this is a huge first step in healing any issue in your life… just let it go.
mindfulness meditation:
begin with a basic meditation (usually by focusing on the breath). observe your thoughts from an outsider perspective as they come to you. do not give them any attention, just observe them and be curious. if you find that you are becoming too aware of your thoughts, focus your attention back on your breath.
this technique helps you to see how your thoughts move in particular patterns. in your day to day life, this will help you to see how quickly the human mind likes to judge experiences and people. with practice, you can be more mindful of this behavior and create an inner balance.
tips for meditation:
when i first begin to meditate, i like to spend a lot of time feeling where i am. i like to feel how i’m sitting, and be curious about why i’m sitting the way i am. is there a balance between the left and right side of my body? did i sit a certain way or have my hand in a certain place that is different than usual? i like to question these things to help be mindful and aware of my body.
next, i spend some time focusing energy to each part of my body, i start with my feet and work my way up to my mind. this allows me to be fully presently aware of my being. i begin by taking a few deep and cleansing breaths in for three seconds and letting them out slowly for three seconds. i like to use visuals in meditation as well. i imagine i’m standing at the tippy top of a cliff, surrounded by beautiful, rushing waterfalls. attached to me is a pair of beautiful white, angel wings. and as i am breathing in, the wings are lifting. as i breathe out, the wings close. i always end a meditation by beginning to focus on my body again. i start from my mind this time, and work my way down to my feet. this creates a balance between mind and body, and refocuses your self into your body.
don’t be frustrated if you find your mind wandering… that is exactly what it should do. just continue to focus on your breath each time your thoughts wander. with practice, you should find that this will happen less and less.
check out some guided meditations to help you get started
eternal sunshine: an app that you can download from the app store. they have very beautiful and relaxing guided meditations. they also have an option to turn on notifications and you will receive inspiring mantras throughout the day.
meditation peace: a great podcast of guided meditations for inner and outer peace. click the link or find it on the apple podcasts app.
tracks to relax: a peaceful podcast of guided meditations to help you fall asleep at night. click the link or find it on the apple podcasts app.











