Working Mamas on Television in the 2000s
Watching Friday Night Lights (from 2006), and, holy shit, I forgot there was this weird period in time when television husband/wife shows (adjacent or centered) always had this weird ass plot where the wife had to hedge around the conversation of getting a job, instead of letting the husband be the only person working.
Hedge around it and then fight with the husband about it. Like, I'm actively remembering how much of a thing this used to be in media, especially in sitcoms (where the expectation was making fun of the wife for trying to get into the workforce).
It was even a significant point in Medium (starring Patricia Arquette and Jake Weber), which debuted a year earlier in 2005. Allison DuBois went to law school but was effectively a stay-at-home Mom until she started having visions about crimes. Then, she worked as a paid consultant for the Arizona PD.
In either case, neither husband really puts up a fight (I think the writers knew that would just make them look bad), but I'm screaming. Ma'am, get you a job and tell your husband to cry in his beer about having to do more than pick the kids up from school.
Sorry, I'm realizing why the trad wife movement is the way that it is. It was some element of this weird expectation of asking your husband permission to make money and get a job of your own outside of child-rearing.








