#mhaadrian

[mental-health-advice]

Is Adrian okay? I haven't seen him answer any asks.

I'll check on him!

Love Pauline

[mental-health-advice]

What're y'all's personal blogs? I sent in an anon ask about having an ADHD boyfriend and Adrian wanted to be kept updated about it.

We have a page with everyone's contact information right here.

Love Pauline

[mental-health-advice]

your so fucking stupid adrian u cnt say u have ADHD thats self dio which u said you shouldnt do. like wtf what gives u the right

Wow. What happened to all the nice Anons? I have been diagnosed for over 13 years. By a doctor. 

We here at Mental Health Advice will not accept any type of hate. I shouldn't respond to this, but you should know that this is not okay. If you have a concern you can kindly approach me. 

You're Stronger Than Your Addiction

-Adrian :)

[mental-health-advice]

My boyfriend has ADHD and he gets distracted but recently (the last few days) he's been going fishing with his friend but then not replying to me when he gets home or before. And idk. I want to talk to him about it but I don't want him to get mad at me or something or accuse me of being emotionally manipulative.

Oh yay I love answering ADHD questions!

Hi!

Okay having ADHD is really difficult. Trust me I got it. If you aren't taking any medication to manage it. So try to understand that he may be trying really hard but when you are doing something with friends It can be difficult to pay attention. 

It's also possible that this is his way of getting alone time, everyone needs their space in a relationship in order for it to last and be healthy.

When talking to him use words like "I" and "we" avoid using words like "you" and never accuse him of "ignoring"

Example:

Right:

I feel like I'm not getting any attention. I send a text, but I never get a response. I feel ____ can we please figure something out?

Wrong:

I feel like you are ignoring me I get you have ADHD, but it I feel ___. Can you please try harder to text me back?

See the difference? Both are nice messages. However the second one can turn out ugly.

Good luck. Keep us me updated?

You're Stronger Than Your Addiction

-Adrian :)

[mental-health-advice]

Do you have any asks signed Arothen?

Yes we do. I'll answer it right away.

[mental-health-advice]

I love what you guys do. It makes me happy to know there are people in the world who want to help. Is there a way other people can join and help with you guys or no?

Thanks Anon! 

You can fill out an application here and when we need more admins we will review all applications. 

You're Stronger Than Your Addiction

-Adrian :)

[mental-health-advice]

Butterflies can't see their wings. They can't see how beautiful they are, but everyone else can. People are like that as well. If you're reading this, you're beautiful. Enjoy your life. ~Kylie

Hi Kylie!!

This is so amazing thanks so much all of us here at Mental Health Advice love these kinds of messages. Whether it's to us directly or everyone in general. 

I totally agree with you. Have an amazing life! We're always here for you! :)

You're Stronger Than Your Addiction

-Adrian :D

[mental-health-advice]

Hello! I'd sent in the (quite long) submission earlier today about my worries over BPD ;; just wondering if you guys had got it in or if tumblr'd eaten the message. No need to hurry with it of course, i was just wondering if it had gone through (and sorry about the length!). thank you!

Hi there,

We may have it, but I can’t find it. Can you please give me some details or if you signed it please?

Thanks.

You’re Stronger Than Your Addiction

-Adrian :)