#milk-caramel

[ambivartence]

happy birthday bb!!! hope u have the best time celebrating 💕💕💕

thank you lovee <3 i did have a great celebration today 💕💕 (which may or may not be why it took me a little longer to reply to you oops)

[trin-santos]

21 🥰💖 also an Apple Music user!!! twinnies hehe

Hair Cut by Xdinary Heroes!! Also slayyy finally someone who also uses apple music akskdkf 😭

[pondphuwin]

ur tags made me so happy ty bb!!!! 🧡 i had to make something cathartically painful lmfao

i love u bestie and i support all your visions even the ones that make me cry 🫶

[ambivartence]

s 💕

s: side effects // stray kids save // nct 127 some // bol4 saturday drip // nct dream salty // the boyz

> give me a letter and i'll tell you my 5 favourite songs starting with that letter <

[pinkhot]

jisoo was discharged from the hospital, she's staying with her family at the moment according to the last statement given. some of the online evidence was proven to be false, but it's also been taken up with the police so i think it's important that people don't jump to any conclusions until it's handled in a proper, legal setting. that's just my two cents~

[mu-zi-yang]

oh, no problem!! you've always struck me as a really sweet, approachable person - especially in regards to other queer fans - so i didn't even think twice about talking to you about it when i saw the post :) as i said in my first message, i really do respect you a lot, so more than anything i just hoped i didn't give off a really bad impression or anything ^^

Omg thank you so much! I honestly don't come off as sweet and approachable a lot of the time, so that's really nice to hear (you're right, I am nicer to other queer fans because I care more about queer fans). You didn't give off a bad impression at all, you were very nice and articulate about what you wanted to say and I'm glad you let me know! :)

[mu-zi-yang]

oh *thank you* for taking the time out to listen to everything i had to say! i think i just automatically assumed to some degree, because i am used to people talking about me when they reference the thread and the lengthy posts about myungjong there. i probably shouldn't have though and i'm glad you shared your POV with me too. i really do agree 100% ^^~

Oooh, no problem, I'm always happy to hear what other queer kpop fans have to say. I honestly wasn't referencing you or any specific person; I haven't been on those threads in months, tbh, I was just speaking based on what I remembered. I don't blame you for feeling kind of defensive, and thanks for talking it out with me!

[mu-zi-yang]

(1/2) it's all good~ i'm just glad we got to talk about it, because i think we are on the same page about most things - especially when it comes to queer fans being able to facilitate these conversations safely. for the most part i don't weigh in on relationships that i don't think have merit to them and when i do i try not to call them 'ships' because it's dismissive to me. ships resonate to most people as fantasy and that's not how legitimate queer relationships should be treated. but then at

(2/2) the same time I’ve almost come to self identify as a shipper, because that’s what I’ve always been dismissed as – a delusional, tinhatting shipper. it’s a tricky thing I guess…

Shipping is definitely a tricky thing and I don't really know how to articulate all my feelings about it right now. But thank you for sharing your POV with me and I'm sorry if you felt that I was being dismissive. For the record, when I refer to shippers or anything like that with the amount of derision that I did, I'm almost always going to be talking about straight shippers because I think the shipping issue is more complex when it comes to queer fans.