I’ve had enough. I’m not the callout type, but this individual has been harassing and stalking me for eight months now.
An ex-friend had been stalking me for months on both tumblr and instagram. I met them through tumblr’s rpc and for a while, we did hit it off but they would suicide-bait me every other week. I can’t recall the amount of times I went to bed sobbing, wondering if they would be okay. Despite my begging for them to get professional help— because I could only help them so much with my daily messages—, they refused, saying it ‘was pointless’. God forbid I take a day away from liking all of their stories and all of their posts— I go back online to a flood of messages insisting that I hate them.
After four years of this, several ‘second chances’, and then constantly breaking my boundaries I set, I told them that I wanted to break the friendship and kindly asked them to respect my wishes.
However, they block-evaded me a collective THIRTY-TWO times in six months, each with a different account. Every time they contacted me, they insisted that I actually do want to stay friends and that they’ll commit suicide if I don’t.
They then tried to contact me on my personal/business instagram (which has my face) using an alias, only to reveal themselves. They had contacted my Picarto account I used only once in 2014. They’ve created several guest accounts to contact my Kofi. I’m only thankful that I never gave them my phone number.
When I finally gave them a reason why I don’t want them in my life, they agreed to leave me alone… They broke that promise in one week, blaming their six-month stalking on ‘psychosis’. When I didn’t respond, they sent me a suicide letter. When I didn’t respond to that, they sent me an anonymous message, saying ‘they killed themselves because me’. I blocked them via anonymous message but it didn’t block their IP address. They continue to email me despite me blocking their email.
On 1st March 2026, I thought they’d finally left me alone. Until someone reblogged a meme from me, when an icon traced from my art. I confronted them, they insisted that they were just referencing my art. They blocked me, they turned on private, I thought that it was. Until I saw their main URL— my stalker, again. This time, as if stalking me for eight months now wasn’t enough, they traced my art and stole my original character that I created in high school.
The problem now? They are still VERY active in the indie tumblr rpc. Seeing them interacting with my mutuals raises several red alarms. I’m not the callout type but after eight months of this, I’ve had enough.
In the meantime, I’m filing a police report
Mimi aka
Honeybilby / Mimithebilby / Cupboppin / Therapymutt / lonedalgyte / bobakkulbeolarchive / Littlemetalbiter / aperturemurdered / annyeonmimi / Msgummysharks / papercupontheleft / bluebilbeeeeee / annyeongmimi / jageun-jagiya / floresonthedashboard / easilydistractedbybirds / littlexblue / edbbjdbvdljzbvksn / macrolagowashere / jellisangeo / marinelifeinterviews / chickadeethings
And probably more— they made dozens of throwaway blogs to stalk me
Instagram:
Honeybilbyillustrations
Block and do NOT engage, unless you want to go through the same shit I went through. They are dangerous and unwell.
EDIT: 2 March, they continue to harass me via throwaway accounts