hi cia lesbianwilbur- i wrote this in the pandasblr discord but i think you (and your followers) might appreciate this:
for me personally, i feel like it's easier to grieve techno knowing that there are millions of other people doing the same. like, it's not like i'm the only one who knew him and i'm the only one to carry his memory. i had that issue when my dad and uncle passed. but here (the internet) with so many other people who loved him, i dont know, it just makes the experience less trying.
take care <3
thank you for sharing, i completely understand how you feel <3 this community has been invaluable
and you take care too! much love










