Faiza ... your answer to that ask about Henrik ... you are so incredibly respectful and gentle and RIGHT! You are a true gift to the skamily, because you represent everything pure SKAM has given us : respect for different opinions, unconditional kindness and above all love and acceptance for everyone. . Please never change😊 I love you so much ❤😘😍
Honestly, it’s - I just … I honestly am not sat here, out to change people’s opinions, or judgements. You know, like, people can think for themselves, they have that right to think for themselves, who am I to change anyone’s opinion?
But, like with all things in life, sometimes we, me included, need to be reminded of the core basics and the foundations that make up the pillars that are our opinions on things and matters. We constantly must remember the right to exercise freewill, and that it is applied to everyone. Everyone has the right to exercise freewill, and yes, that includes Henrik. We cannot, and are not allowed to say how he can exercise his right of freewill.
That’s a very damaging train of thought that, you don’t ever really wanna board, because once you do, you don’t get off it. You just continue to ride on it. And afterwards, it becomes addictive, and then, it becomes toxic. That’s where the damage is.
So yeah, it’s just a … gentle reminder, I guess. And after that, people can choose to re-evaluate their way of thinking and decide. If you change your opinion, then that’s cool. If you don’t, that’s cool. But, we must distance ourselves from perspectives that we ourselves find damaging, for our own health and wellbeing. We must recognise those, for our own betterment.