#misgendering ment

[rel-ish]

this website is my own personal hell but im not leaving because this is the only place you fuckers couldn't deadname me even if you wanted to

[newt--x]

Me: *supports trans women* *supports sex workers* *constantly reblogs about transmisogyny's impacts and why terfs should stfu* *literally says in my bio that i'm nonbinary and that i use they/them & neopronouns*

Terfs: hey, i can completely follow this person! it's probably a [binary gender] btw, should use [she or he] pronouns!

[unluckyxse7en]

I need a face mask with the word SIR emblazoned on it. Is that a thing? Bc I need it

[coldlights]

why is it so hard to use my name? dont you care about the pain you're causing? will i always be your daughter?

[rslashrats]

when you get called she despite literally having your pronouns in your name

[jet-bradley]

I'm honestly low-key getting pissed off today, and it's honestly all irl shit. Being called a girl/my deadname all day, my mouth still hurting and giving me headaches, being in a car with the radio on & also little brother playing video games, knowing I look masc but still not having a binder and therefore still coming off as a girl, having had barely anything to eat all day but some crackers and a McDonald's chicken sandwich, I'm mcfuckin losing it lads

[tykhes]

maybe i should tell people at my university to use the danish he/him pronouns ???? at least that way they’ll be aware that im not a girl ???? i think that’s why i’ve been feeling so fucking dysphoric, because i’ve tried to convince myself that im okay with danish she/her pronouns, but when i just accept those pronouns, people don’t ever get that im agender.

so like.... technically im okay with danish she/her pronouns, but what im not okay with is that the people who use them to refer to me consider me a girl. and at least if i tell them to use he/him pronouns they’ll become aware of the fact that im not one. so maybe ???? tbh im desperate bc i’ve finally realized that dysphoria is the reason for this weird something’s-crawling-under-my-skin feeling that i’ve been feeling for months aaahhh

[nonbinarying]

Can u plz explain or link about transmedicalist and why u think its bad? Srry, im nb but i never heard of this before tbh, n i want to know more.

Transmedicalist (aka Truscum, Transcum, or Transfundamentalist) are people who think dysphoria is an essential component of being trans and anyone who doesn't experience it is fake, “appropriating transness”, a “transtrender”, etc. They typically exclude non-binary people from the trans community, view us as fake, attention seekers, etc. In fact, they often go around misgendering, shaming, and overall just making fun of nonbinary people and non-dysphoric trans people.

Find out more here.

Note: I do NOT use the terms transcum/truscum. I do not like calling trans people, no matter how bad, scum.

-S