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[fandomshatefatpeople]

this author has multiple books with fat characters finding love!

Heard from the booktuber that she's working on another review in this series.

[fandomshatepeoplewdisabilities]

quick rundown of some disabled rep in new shows this year

+ the night sky (age related disablities)

+paper girls (strongly implied that Ali Wong’s character has a mental illness)

+ms. marvel (Kamala Khan is strongly coded as ADHD)

please feel free to add! I need some stuff to watch.

[startrekfandomh8speopleofcolor]

pryde7 mad celia is more attractive than they’ll ever be

omg I'M CACKLING you're so right Nonny!

for anyone that doesn't know pryde7 is one of the main ones spewing misogynoir against Celia Rose Gooding/Uhura on Strange New Worlds. Our co mod ali has made a video about their bs.

[fandomshatefatpeople]

I have found a lot of healing through writing a fanfic where a character I imagine as fat heals from his own internalized fatphobia.

The character in question is an author who ends up in the world of the story he wrote (if you know the character from this description, ily). He has a lot of self hatred in canon, so I have him writing the character he later lives as as being fat, reflecting his (and our society's) views of fat people as pathetic losers since that character is exactly that. (Note: this is him projecting his own issues onto that character since I see him as also being fat 'in real life')

So after he ends up in this character's body he can't change the way the character was described. Nothing he does can change it (even all the diet and exercise in the world).

Then he realizes something... Interesting. He's the only fat character in the story (there are random fat people around but no one who impacts the story) and... He's never picked on for it. He's bullied quite a bit (a canon thing for the character) but never for his weight. The closest he gets is a "fatty" nickname and even then it's used as just a description same as if they called him "short" or "brunet". And even then, he occasionally hears people boasting about it (he's in charge of management of finances and stuff so it's a boast about the wealth of their facility that he is able to put on weight, a very rare thing in that setting, since it's quasi historical and poverty and starvation were extremely common)

He even discovers his LI (canon love interest btw who he explicitly created to be his "Perfect Man") finds his body very attractive explicitly BECAUSE of his body type, not in spite of it. (Partially because it's kinda rare in that world because if the majority are thin and/or muscular then fat would be more appealing because it's different)

My biggest issue is writing the sex scene I vowed to myself I would write because GDI I think I've only seen maybe a couple other fics with this character as fat and I want fat characters to get railed too!!! I think I need to commit to having his LI be attracted to his body and SHOW him appreciating it without caring if it comes across as fat fetish

So I didn't answer it when we first got it. But like I'm really invested in your story!!! I'd love to read it! If you want to come off anon and message me on my personal @malainastarling I'd love to cheer you on!!!

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[fandomshatefatpeople]

Dark looks on Pinterest

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here's my Dark Looks board!

[fandomshatepeoplewdisabilities]

a few things about the elderly and disabilities and the amazon show “Night Sky”

So I take care of 3 seniors.  And I’m also disabled even though I’m in my late 30s I’ve got depression. 

but like its really hard when they can no longer do things they used to be able to do and now they can’t

a few things the three seniors can no longer do that they could do before covid.

my grandmother and my father can no longer read v well. Grandma’s more extreme though she can only see shapes now.

Mom can’t walk down the block anymore.

Dad’s memories are really bad (probably because he doesn’t take his insulin but it could just be dementia).

Mom can’t carry things in her hands because she drops like heavier dishes and such.

Grandma’s hearing is really bad. and dad needs things really loud.

So what I’m saying is that sometimes as much as I wish we could see more representation for seniors and middle aged people this show kinda pissed me off?

Like I started it with my mom and I love sissy spacek and thought the premise was interesting.

but ofc like I stopped watching when my mom told me that the character sissy plays gets better from her ailments.  like its so frustrating because I thought it was just gonna be old ppl having adventures in space!  

anyways should I finish it?

[fandomshatefatpeople]

Hi, this is super late, but I just came across your blog for the first time and I saw this post of yours from October (/765177367775821824/hello-my-partner-riley-just-posted-a-video-of) and in your reply you use 'he/him' pronouns to refer to Riley, but in the original ask, the OP only uses they/them and non-gendered terms like partner.

It's an easy mistake to make, so I don't want you to think this is an attack or I'm angry or anything, I just wanted to bring it to your attention so it can be corrected. I know top surgery is often seen as a trans guy thing, but it's also common for trans masc nonbinary people and the information given from Riley's partner doesn't indicate that Riley uses he/him pronouns.

Have a wonderful day!

Hey sorry this ask has been waiting a while. Heres the post you're referring to https://fandomshatefatpeople.tumblr.com/post/765177367775821824/hello-my-partner-riley-just-posted-a-video-of

I'm going to make a note on it and apologize for the misgendering on behalf of the mod team. Thanks for pointing it out so kindly to us!!!

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[fandomshatefatpeople]

spring outfits on Pinterest

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here's my Spring outfits board on pinterest. All plus sized!