Ok so this one boy I like is someone I've known for around a year and one of the 1st ppl I came out to (and he def likea dudes im SURE) and he's wonderful and at a friend's bday party we went rollerskating and he (amd.other ppl) held my hand to steady me but he stayed the longest and our palms were sweaty because I held so tight and i fell a lot an he made me laugh sm and I REALLY LOVE HIM but im nowhere near his type and don't wanna make things awkward and I'm trans I kinda pass but WHAT DO
i'm trans too, and i've gotten feelings for cos men who i feel like i might not pass to. this is really cute! if you're already out to him as trans, i would recommend shooting your shot and telling him how you feel! if anything, you'll get closure about whether or not he returns the feelings. hand holding can be very intimate or very platonic given the circumstances, so i could see this either way!
when admitting crushes on people always be prepared for the worst, for somebody to say no. it makes things better if they say yes, as well as keeps you from getting too heartbroken about a possible no!
as always, i'd love to see more advice in the replies and reblogs!
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