I'm agender (AFAB) and use he/they/it + any neos people want to call me, basically any pronouns but she/her. Being called she/her isn't really bothering me so much, what bothers me is that if I ever give people the chance to call me that, that's all they'll ever use for me since I still look pretty fem. I already get misgendered enough as is, I don't need more.
This is queerphobia!














