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Can dogs be fps?

I’ve never heard of it, but that doesn’t mean it’s not possible! I’ve heard of people having fictional FPs, so I’m not sure why a dog couldn’t be one!

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thank you, that helps a lot, i think i will bring it up if it happens a lot. i have mental illnesses too so sometimes i feel like the things i feel get lost compared to everyone else's, especially my friend, but what you said helps a lot. i will heal from all this, thank you.

I’m so glad I could help!

People with BPD feel things much more intensely than most people, which means she may have trouble putting your problems on a scale with hers. That said, it obviously doesn’t mean your problems are any less important or valid. If it comes up again, please make sure your boundaries are known so that you can be healthy and happy. She probably has no clue that she’s been upsetting you with this, and most people with BPD would be horrified if they found out that they were harming their FPs (which is not to say that you should feel bad for telling her).

Good luck, friend. You can always return here if you need a listening ear. If she has any questions, feel free to send her here as well. I hope you’re well.

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hi there, i'm a fp of a person with bpd and although i love her more than anything and she is my best friend, i really don't like hearing her talk about me as her favourite person. because i'm not perfect and so i feel like she doesn't know me, and that she only likes an idealized version of me, not the real me. it makes me feel kind of like an object that just exists for her to adore + possess and i don't like that. , i dunno, i just wanted to maybe let people know what the flip side is like

I really appreciate the input. I have BPD and have two FPs (and I don’t think one of them likes being an FP so I try not to talk about BPD around him); I am also the BPD of a much loved friend with BPD.

I think it’s important to remember that people with BPD have that idealized or devalued black and white feelings about everyone and everything. While I completely understand that it can seem objectifying, it’s not something she can help and not just directed at you.

That said, if she makes you uncomfortable by talking about you being an FP, I think you should tell her! I would moderate my script earlier and instead mention what you just told me! Tell her that you understand it’s not on purpose, but intent doesn’t change the way you feel and that you would appreciate it if she didn’t talk about it anymore. Remind her that you’re not perfect and that why you understand her idealization, it’s not healthy or helpful for you.

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ive added some posts to the queue on bpd, self harm, and eating disorders

if there is anything in particular you ever want to see, please let us know!

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Added some more stuff to the queue!

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Sorry for the late response. Yes this is much more readable, thank you!!

No problem! And thanks for letting us know!

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I’m so glad you like the theme! The last one was really hard to read, and I wanted one that was more accessible but also soothing and light.

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