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[dangan-happy]

[Password: Don't hurt Gonta's bug friends, you fiend!]

To Izuru, Mukuro, and Monodam.

I've been in this really weird funk lately? Like, how I'd describe it is that I'm tired, but in a way where I'm bored for some reason, and therefore, don't feel like doing anything other than laying around in bed/sleeping. But on the other hand, there's enjoyable stuff I want to/can do (i.e. play video games) and work-related stuff that needs to/should get done (i.e. writing and editing). I just hate it because it causes me to procrastinate a bit, as well as self-loathe way more than what I already do on a daily basis. It makes me feel more useless and unskilled, y'know?

Can I get some advice and/or support? And maybe some hugs and kisses on the cheek, please? Thank you so much!

We all have those moments in life where our momentum hits an absolute zero. Where we feel the need to do absolutely nothing. No goals, no motivation, no energy. 

Perhaps you’ve heard this many times before; Procrastination is one of the biggest diseases in humanity today, we put our tasks and activities on hold for an undisclosed period. Only for it to pile up. But I sense you are the kind to get your work done when it is assigned, so allow your work ethic to take over, while not burdening yourself and exhausting.

I’ve not forgotten. Hugs and a kiss for you. Continue to strive towards the ends of your goals.

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I understand that feeling all too well, a close…friend has been the same way. He’s been sluggish and not wanting to get out of bed, especially when it comes to wanting to sleep the day away. Ah yes, and the video games. You sound a lot like him…even though I know it’s not him, but that’s beside the point. I have an idea of what you’re feeling.

When you’re feeling lazy, for a bit it’s okay, but then you start feeling like you won’t get things done and it starts piling up with stress. I have never truly felt that myself but I can do my best for advice. I would suggest taking it slow, one thing at a time if you will, perhaps when you get one thing done, you can focus on the next. And it’s okay to take breaks, no shame in needing one from time to time. It can help ease the strain of procrastination, even if it’s for a short amount of time.

You can have a hug and um – kisses on the cheek too, right? Yeah, you can have that too.

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Greetings-Anon. I-Will-Try-To-Do-My-Best-To-Assist-You. Yes, I-Am-Familliar-With-Boredom. I-Am-Sorry-You-Are-Feeling-That-Way. Sometimes-These-Periods-Come-And-Go-On-Their-Own, But-Just-In-Case-I-Recommend-Poentially-Speaking-To-A-Mental-Health-Professional-If-Things-Get-Worse-Or-Do-Not-Improve.

You-Are-Not-Useless-Or-Unskilled. Everyone-Goes-Through-This-At-One-Point-Or-Another. Your-Worth-Is-Not-Based-Off-Of-Your-Abilities. I-Am-Truly-Sorry-To-Hear-That-You-Are-Experiencing-Self-Loathing. I-Know-You-Might-Not-Believe-Me, But-You-Are-A-Truly-Amazing-Person-No-Matter-What-You-Are-Going-Through. I-Believe-My-Best-Suggestion-For-You-Would-Be-To-Potentially-Change-Things-Up-A-Little. Maybe-Try-A-New-Activity-To-Break-Yourself-Out-Of-This-State.

I-Am-Happy-To-Give-You-As-Many-Hugs-As-You-Want. I-Believe-This-Is-The-First-Time-I-Have-Been-Asked-For-Cheek-Kisses. I-Will-Try-My-Best-For-You. I-Wish-You-Nothing-But-The-Best. So-Long, Bear-Well.

[dangan-happy]

It’s an avocado… thanks! To Izuru, Junko, and/or Monodam (because you are precious and are severely underrated. Seriously, when was the last time you received an ask?). Some hugs, please? I just had some really terrible intrusive thoughts, and while I got reassurance and comfort, the worry is still there. I do acknowledge that they're just intrusive thoughts, too, but that doesn't exactly make it all better, y'know? Sorry if this is vague; I cried on VC with someone and am really tired now...

Intrusive thoughts you say? The type which gives you false premonitions of your well-being as well as the status of those around you. I sympathize for you how I can. Allow me to explain in a manner you may understand. 

The human mind is a wonder that nobody has figured out, with it we can conjure anything beyond belief in our heads. It created a false reality within you. One for the worse of things. Your emotions had blended with your mind to create despair-inducing images in your head, with the intent to make you feel fear and sorrow. But the reality of the situation is far apart than what your thoughts tell you. So hold onto reality. 

I have not forgotten. You have wished for a hug. While I fail to understand the nature of an affectionate act, it seems to be helping those in need. I hope your mind treats you better in the future.

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You-think-I-am-adorable?!... .... ....Thank-you. I-feel-warm-inside. I-hope-I-can-make-you-happy-as-well. I-am-sure-you-have-heard-this-before, but-I-am-sorry-that-you-are-experiencing-this. It-is-ok-that-the-feelings-are-still-there. You-do-not-need-to-feel-better-instantly. Take-all-the-time-you-need-to-relax-and-let-the-feelings-fade. I-am-glad-you-can-acknowledge-that. Yes-it-does-not-make-things-feel-better, but-that-knowledge-is-helpful-and-important-overall. You-are-a-smart-and-brave-person, and-as-hard-as-it-is, I-hope-you-can-remember-your-worth. It-is-ok-if-it-sounds-a-little-vague.

I-understand-what-you-are-saying. I-am-glad-you-have-had-a-form-of-emotional-relief. It-makes-sense-that-you-are-tired. Be-sure-to-get-some-rest. I-will-be-happy-to-give-you-a-hug. I-am-not-as-cuddly-as-my-siblings, but-I-will-try-my-best. Be-kind-to-yourself, you-deserve-it. Thank-you-for-including-me-in-this-ask. I-hope-I-answered-well. So-long, bear-well. Or-in-this-case, bedtime-ursine. Please-try-to-get-some-rest.

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Eww! Intrusive thoughts are like, so terrible! Like when you're just trying to have a normal day and then boom! Sudden violence in your head! It's so despairful, the icky, gross despair!

Of course the worry's still gonna be there. Comfort and reassurance and all that shit won't just magically fix everything! It's hella valid to still be worried, too. Intrusive thoughts are icky as hell! You're super valid, nonnie!

Sure sure! You can get a hug! I'll squeeze all the despair outta you and take it for myself~! Just kidding, I'd never do that. Maybe~! Stay strong anon, you'll get through this bullshit in your head! I know so!

[dangan-happy]

Give me back my glitter, monomi!

Hey, Um, it's Boat Anon, Can I ask For Maki, Monodam and Mondo?

It's been some time since I've properly sent an ask, and my English is once again acting up because I'm spending alot of time around my French speaking family because my English speaking side is too harsh and uncaring that they've pushed me to the side and I have no way to do anything. Also, I did read that Ask Camellia sent your way, Maki, and Thanks, I've never seen myself as anyone, let alone brave.

Well anyways. My mum has threatened to leave me and never talk to me again and has repeatedly accused me of trying to lie to her even though part of my brain damage has effected memory alongside sense loss all because I didn't choose Spanish, and I feel like garbage now. I don't wanna ask for too much from anyone or make them do anything uncomfortable but can I have some hugs, headpats and advices.(I also have a new pet leopard gecko and I'm wondering what i should call her.)

I’m glad the way I answered helped even just a little bit, I really believe that you’re brave, I will hold onto that statement.. 

Of course, you don’t need to ask, I’m always going to do my best to help you boaty, you ask for me frequently. It’s not a bad thing, I’m just quite surprised that I’m helpful to you without having to equip my talent. I suppose that idiot Kaito has taught me a thing or two about not resorting to violence...

Now for that hug & head pat. As for advice, is there any place you may be able to go if your mum does leave? It’s ridiculous that she’s going to such extremes.. If you ask me, I think you may need to explain about your brain damage.. I can understand though...it’s difficult but try being firm about it. The way she’s acting is irrational..

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I gotta agree with the assassin chick, explaining may be your best go-to option. What pisses me off is your mom thinking that she can just threaten to leave and never talk to you again, who the fuck does she think she is? Yea she’s your mom but what the fuck is going through her head, it goes without saying that she’s being unfair. 

Don’t think it’s your fault, alright Boaty? Your mom is the one being a total *beep* about this entire thing. 

Yea, I’ll also give you a hug and head pat, I’m sorry things aren’t too good right now. Shit, arguing with a parent is something I know all too well. As for your new gecko pal, how about naming him, Martin? Like that little guy from a Geico commercial!

Hello-Boat-Anon. I-have-read-most-of-your-previous-asks-as-this-is-the-first-time-you-have-asked-for-me. Don't-worry-about-your-English. It-seems-fine-to-me, and-I-can-understand-you-just-fine. I-hope-that-having-some-time-away-from-your-English-speaking-family-is-doing-some-good-for-your-mental-health. From-what-I-read, it-seems-to-me-that-your-mother-is-threatening-you-leave-you-for-not-choosing-Spanish? This-seems-entirely-illogical-to-me. You-mentioned-that-you-have-brain-damage, which-is-something-out-of-your-control. To-me-it-seems-that-your-mother-should-have-a-little-more-sympathy-and-understanding-for-you. Her-actions-do-not-seem-to-have-any-logic-behind-them.

You-should-not-feel-guilty-about-anything-with-your-mother. I-do-not-think-you-did-anything-that-was-necessarily-wrong. Since-you-have-been-presented-with-this-situation, I-think-this-is-a-good-chance-for-you-to-think-about-if-you-want-your-mother-in-your-life. Maybe-you-would-be-better-off-without-her. Would-her-leaving-potentially-be-a-good-thing-for-you? It-is-your-choice, and-I-do-not-believe-I-have-anything-else-to-advise-you-on.

How-wonderful. I-am-happy-to-hear-that-you-have-a-new-pet. I-have-never-owned-a-pet, and-I-do-not-know-much-about-lizards, but-I-am-sure-you-will-take-good-care-of-her. If-you-are-thinking-about-a-name, I-recommend-picking-one-that-has-emotional-significance-to-you, such-as-something-that-makes-you-happy. I'm-sure-whatever-name-you-pick-will-be-perfect. I-hope-you-and-your-lizard-will-get-along. I-am-happy-to-give-you-both-head-pats-and-a-hug. I-am-happy-to-provide-as-much-comfort-as-you-want.

[dangan-happy]

This-is -an -announcement!

... ... ...Greetings. I-Am-Monodam, A-Member-Of-The-Monokubs. I-Decided-To-Offer-My-Assistence-To-This-Blog. I-Hope-You-Can-Open-Your-Hearts-To-Me, And-I-Will-Try-To-Do-The-Same. I-Hope-We-Can-All-Get-Along. Yes, We-Will-All-Get-Along...

[dangan-happy]

{Password: Give me back my glitter, Monomi!}

To Shirokuma, Monodam and/or Korekiyo: hey there! school has been really stressing me out recently: all of that work is already piling up, even though it's only been a week, and i have quite a few tests coming up soon.. so i was wondering, could get a hug or comfort or something from whoever answers this?

Hello anon, I can't say I've ever done an ask with bears before, or really anything with bears, so I thank you for the interesting experience. Bears aside, I assure you I will attempt to help you with the best of my abilities. Yes, school in general is quite the stressful subject, and unfortunately for you it seems that this stress is building rather quickly. Having tests arrive this early almost makes me feel stressed along with you, so I can only imagine what you're feeling. The good news is that it is still the start of everything. If you can get organized and figure out a way to handle everything now, those strategies will continue to serve you for the rest of the school year. Things are escalating quickly, but it is alright.

 You can do this, I promise. I'm not one to instill false hope, so I wouldn't say it if I wasn't certain. You have time to figure out a strategy that works for you. There's no shame in talking to teachers to get a little extra help if you need it. I know it feels terrifying, but you have the ability to conquer this problem.

I hope this was an adequate answer. It was a bit short, mainly because I don't have anything to offer, you're already capable of handling this yourself. I would be happy to give you a hug however, I hope that will continue to help you. I wish you the best of luck on your tests, I hope you get nothing but success. 

Greetings-anon. I-am-happy-to-have-a-chance-to-help-you. It-is-disappointing-to-hear-that-the-school-system-is-so-hard-on-people. Those-bastards-in-charge-of-education-should-reconsider-their-actions. If-I-was-a-headmaster-I-would-not-force-curriculum-this-quickly.

 I-am-sorry-you-have-had-such-a-stressful-week. However-it-should-not-cause-you-to-lose-hope. I-know-it-is-strange-for-me-to-mention-hope, I-prefer-the-idea-of-getting-along-to-the-idea-of-hope, but-in-this-case-it-is-important. It-is-only-the-first-week. There-is-lots-of-time-for-lots-of-good-weeks. It-is-a-good-thing-that-it-is-still-early, you-have-time-to-fix-things-and-make-sure-you-set-yourself-up-for-success. Reaching-out-to-teachers-and-creating-a-system-to-keep-you-organized-are-the-best-suggestions-I-have-for-you. It-does-take-work, but-if-you-study-for-the-tests-I-am-sure-you-will-do-well. 

Do-not-give-up. You-can-do-this. You-are-smart-and-strong-and-I-know-you-can-be-confident. I-can-give-you-a-hug, but-I-must-warn-you-that-I-am-not-very-cuddly. But-if-my-texture-is-alright-with-you, I-will-hug-you-for-as-long-as-you-want. Thank-you-for-opening-your-heart-to-us. So-long, bear-well. 

Hi there Anon friend! I gotta agree with the others on this, you got this! School can be very stressful for everyone but as long as you keep trying your very best you'll do amazing, I'm sure of it!

I'm sure that's not all you wanted to hear, but after some time of thinking and just like the others said you could always try and get everything all organized! It'll help with keeping your stress levels low. You could always ask your teachers too and even friends and family, i'm sure they would all love to help you out! Also whaaat? You've only been in school for a week and you already have tests being flung at you? That sounds so scary!! But I bet you'll do amazing, be sure to study for them and you'll do super duper on them. You could always take a few hours out of your day to sit down and study or even ask your teachers for some extra help if you're unsure with something..Oh! And of course you can get all the hugs and flowers you want, that's no problem at all Anon-friend! Best of luck! If you need any more help with feeling better about school or anything really you know where to find me.

[dangan-happy]

hhhh monodam you're so cute. I've had trouble with bullies lately and idk what to do. Could I maybe get a hug? (pw: ENOSHIMA IM BALD)

You-Think-I-Am-Cute?... ... ...I-Was-Not-Programmed-To-Deal-With-Compliments. Thank-You. I-Really-Appreciate-It. I'm-Sure-We-Will-Get-Along-Well.

I-Am-Sorry-To-Hear-You-Are-Being-Bullied. I-Wish-I-Could-Make-Everyone-Get-Along. While-I-Prefer-Removing-Bullies, I-Do-Not-Want-You-To-Get-Arrested. Instead-Why-Not-Remove-Yourself-From-The-Situation-As-Much-As-Possible? Try-To-Avoid-Being-Near-Your-Bullies. Maybe-Talk-To-Someone-Trusted-And-Ask-If-They-Can-Help-Keep-Them-Away-From-You. No-One-Deserves-To-Be-Treated-Like-That.

You-Are-Not-A-Tattletale-If-You-Ask-For-Help. Those-Bastards-Are-Being-Cruel-To-You, So-You-Can-Do-What-You-Need-To-So-You-Can-Get-Help. I-Am-Happy-To-Give-You-A-Hug. You-Opened-Your-Heart-To-Me-So-I-Will-As-Well. Please-Come-Here-So-I-May-Give-You-A-Hug. I-Hope-I-Was-Able-To-Help-You. So-Long, Bear-Well.

[dangan-happy]

This is to anyone. Specifically (as weird as this may sound), this is to anyone who hasn't gotten/done an ask in awhile. Go crazy; use that character who hasn't gotten an ask in awhile, yeah? I care about all of you and the hard work you do, after all. So you've probably heard this before, but I got a crappy sleep schedule, and it screws me over for both school and work. And I've tried many over-the-counter sleep aids, but I just get used to them. Some advice, please? [[[ENOSHIMA I'M BALD]]]

As a soldier, getting sleep is crucial to being alert for all your surroundings. Of course, that doesn’t mean I’m not human, I get exhausted sometimes too. That’s if I overexert myself too much. Believe me, I can understand what it’s like to have a horrible sleep schedule.

Let’s see, if sleeping aids won’t work for you, perhaps you can take some…oh, what’s it called…I believe it’s known as NyQuil? Junko has used it before when she couldn’t fall asleep, knocked her out like a light. Perhaps also listening to subliminal kind of videos that have rain noises…well, those have helped me in the past so maybe they can help you too?

I really do recommend the NyQuil idea, it seems to have worked on my sister, maybe it could for you too. Especially since you have school and work to worry about, I understand that needing all the sleep you can get is important. Oh, practicing relaxation may help as well. Something to help you get relaxed and comfortable before falling asleep.

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Hello-Anon. I-would-be-happy-to-answer-this-ask. Since-your-problems-are-already-this-bad, it-seems-that-the-best-thing-for-you-is-more-specialized-help. You-may-need-something-stronger-than-the-things-you-have-been-trying. I-reccomend-going-to-a-sleep-specialist-or-another-medical-professional. They-might-be-able-to-find-a-more-personalized-treatment-that-will-work-for-you-in-the-long-run. This-may-also-be-the-most-quick-way-to-find-a-solution-so-you-can-get-some-sleep.

There-is-no-need-to-thank-us-for-our-work. I-am-happy-we-can-all-get-along-and-help-askers-like-you. I-care-about-you-too. Thank-you-for-opening-your-heart-to-us, as-well-as-giving-me-a-chance-to-answer. I-hope-you-can-get-a-good-night's-rest-soon. So-long, bear-well!