#mod oni

[stop-yanderedev]

Hey oni sorry if this makes you uncomfortable but I know you’re transgender so I wanted to ask... I identify as trans but I have never had dysphoria, and my family is telling me I can’t be trans if I don’t have dysphoria. Idk what to do,, I don’t feel valid anymore :c (btw if you don’t want to answer this bc discourse I totally understand)

its ok honey! ive had people tell me the same thing, and i think/say the same thing every time: who cares! if you feel it in your heart, it cant be wrong, right? if you cant find the courage to say this (and trust me, its a hard thing to say so i dont blame you) then just nod and say “i understand where your coming from, but i feel the way i feel” and any attempts to continue the conversation just nod and say “okay.” theres really no response to “okay,” so you can even just respond outright with it. 

your identity is never less valid just because you dont experience dysphoria. yorre still a beautiful, amazing trans person no matter what anyone says! anyone who says you need dysphoria to be trans takes pleasure in trans suffering, and you have no time or energy to shed tears or stress over people like that. who even cares about them, right? you, in your heart, know youre trans, and you dont need anyone in the world to tell you “no youre not!” and bring you down because they enjoy the pain of trans folk. never give up!

in the end, you have so many people who view you as the person you truly are. if no one else, i do! and the rest of the mods here do as well. youve got a family here any day of the week, 24/7. 

i love you anon, and your identity will never waver just because someone feels you need to suffer for it.

-Oni

[otohiko-against-krits]

(She said the N word with e hard er)

[crytypecourse-archive]

poc only wanting to date poc isn’t the same as white people only wanting to date white people trans people only wanting to date trans people isn’t the same as cis people only wanting to date cis people thanks for coming to my ted talk

[oni-vpn]

@xx-flaredragon-xx

here’s the second one for ya o: i hope you like him 

took a bit since coloring is weird. butyeah

-mod oni

[stop-yanderedev]

someone make an edit of cleveland saying “i can excuse racism and pedophilia, but i draw the line at mecca bombing memes”

[otohiko-against-krits]

Gremlins have gone to bullying me I’ll most likely leave the server soon. It hurts to read. Here’s some things of Oni lying about who they are and her and Squig begin racist. Squig also objectifies women. 

In reference to “her” selfie. (His)

Imagine being this much of a bad person. 

[stop-yanderedev]

@ truscum anons: stop fucking gatekeeping because no matter if someone is dysphoric or not, our oppressors are still going to treat us the same way. Stop being angry because not everyone is 100% like you

bwah bwaaaah

-Oni

[stop-yanderedev]

hey oni! different anon here. I've never had dysphoria all my life and i know full well i'm trans and being told that i'm not really sucks. Having dysphoria shouldn't define your gender, your identification and what pronouns make you happy should. Thank you for defending nondysphorics

of course! as a nondysphoric trans person, hearing all this bullshit about “you need dysphoria to be trans” just exemplifies how trans people are expected to suffer at the fullest to truly be themselves. at this point, i just view people like that as fools who have never spoken to another human outside the internet so :/ sorry if it ruffles some feathers but youve never needed a mental illness to be trans. never have and never will

-Oni