I have a question about the Aplatonic day before I start writing. I thought I 100% knew what it meant (fellow aroace person here) but I wanted to double check my understanding and after about half an hour of scrolling I'm very confused. I see a good ammount of the A-spec community saying it's a term for aromantic people and then I see some saying that pretty much that's gate keeping the word and it can be it's own thing. I started to write with the mindset that the terms mean what they mean to each individual person (rightfully so) but now I'm second-guessing myself and afraid to write in utter fear of offending people. I really don't even know how to fill the prompt now 😓
Sincerly, a very confused ( and slightly scared ) aroace fanfic writer
Thank you for your ask! We apologise for failing to discuss the complexity of the term 'aplatonic' and have made you confused 😅
Aplatonic is a term who's use has spread relatively recently, and therefore - as all new things do - a lot of discussion has spread around it. Different people have their own definitions, which as you said is completely valid!
The mods of the fest have chosen to take the view that the term 'aplatonic' applies not only to aromantic people. Our reasoning is two-fold.
One, it opens up the interpretation for fest participants who may wish to write about an aplatonic person who experiences other types of attractions, or ones who want to write about a person who experiences no types of attraction at all.
Two, we want to acknowledge that - from what we gathered on the aplatonic page of the lgbta wiki - the concept was first opened up for discussion by a homoromantic asexual, who posted on the AVEN forums on April 6, 2012, "I have friends and care about them; but love is a powerful word, and one I cannot apply to them."
From what we've read, the majority view in aromantic communities is that 'aplatonic' applies to alloromantic people too. However, since the term is most commonly used by aromantic people, we have chosen to include it in the Aro Appreciation Week part of the fest.
We hope this answers your question! We also have definitions of various terms in our FAQ. Please feel free to send us another ask if anything is unclear or if you have anymore questions!