The dads reacting to Dadsona wanting to adopt a child with them , after a long time together of curse ( like three or four years)
What would be the dads reactions to hearing that dadsona wants to adop another child a time after amanda Leaves ?
Hugo: You two have had an amazing 4 years together. It’s gone by all too fast. Ernest is a senior, about to go off to college and Amanda was now a professional photographer. You watched Ernest go through highschool. That was a… experience. Thankfully, Ernest had really matured. He still had his problems but he’s greatly improved. Hugo says it was all you. Yet, you knew that he played a part as well. Sadly, you didn’t see Amanda often. She was still in college, plus working a photographer career. She was always busy. You found yourself one day looking over old pictures. Of you and Alex. It had been a long time but you still let yourself grieve over him every now and then. There was one in particular that you stared at for awhile. Amanda the day you adopted her. You sighed, remembering the feeling you had when you adopted her. For some reason, these thoughts filled your mind for a long time. You thought about walking out into the living room and seeing Hugo holding a baby in his arms. Your heart melted as you created domestic situations in your head. You wanted to tell Hugo. But you were scared. You didn’t want him to think you wanted to replace Ernest. That wasn’t the case at all. You loved Ernest! You just wanted that experience again. You wanted it with Hugo.
“What’s on your mind?” Hugo said, making you jump and look up from the couch. “Oh..it’s nothing” You say and smile at him. He raised an eyebrow. This was something you hated about dating a teacher. He was… surprisingly good at knowing your mind. It’s like he’s studied your behavior. Which you wouldn’t be surprised by but that meant he could see through your stubborn stubborn ways. You sighed and told him to sit. Then you began to ramble.
"I…I know we both have kids and both of them are or are about to be out of the house. I wasn’t there for most of Ernest's life and you were only a teacher in Amanda’s.“ You took a breath to compose yourself. "Sorry, this has just been on my mind for awhile so I’m over thinking. Hugo…I've been thinking about us adopting a child together. I’m not trying to replace our kids. I just want that experience with you.” You bit your lip, scared for the response but when you looked up he was smiling and was slightly blushing.
"Y/N. You shouldn’t have hidden this from me. I understand you aren't trying to replace anyone. I’m not going to say yes right away, but I’m not opposed to the idea. Raising a child with you sounds wonderful, we’ll talk more about it" His words made you smile widely and you threw yourself into him. He laughed and his strong arms wrapped around you.
Craig: The idea had been in your head for a bit. It wasn’t really eating away at you. Since you already had 3 to deal with. The twins were in highschool now and River was 5. Let’s just say you had your hands full. You’d be lying if you said it wasn’t worth it. You and Craig were always very family oriented and loved kids.
The idea was thrown out casually. Smashley had the kids and you two were just finishing a run. You decided to just throw a ball around to catch your breath. After awhile of this, the conversation went to family.
"I've always had an image of a huge family” you hummed. Craig laughed. “Bro, I know. You drunk rambled about wanting 11 kids one time in college” You rolled your eyes. “not that big smartass.” He chuckled
“Well you definitely got that dream. 2 highschoolers and a toddler. It’s rough” you chuckled and responded “yeah, times just flew by. It feels like yesterday I went to Briar and Hazel’s first softball game. Well first time I saw them I mean"
Craig hummed in agreement and you continued. "Recently I think I’ve caught baby fever. Getting another kids been on my mind.” Craig hummed, thinking for a moment.
"I’ll think about that," he said send grinned “having another kid wouldn’t be too bad. I’ve done it 3 times already” He said and you chuckled. You went to speak again but suddenly the ball hit your head. “Craig!"
Mat: Time flew by with Mat but they were the best years. It wasn’t crazy and wild. Quiet the opposite it was calm and warm. Mat was amazing in so many ways. Him and Carminsita brought you so much joy. Yet, Carminsita was 17 now. It was so weird. It felt like yesterday she was being mentored by Amanda. Her lighthearted spirit still burst through her. She was always smiling and bouncing. She just had a sense of maturity that wasn’t there before. You and her had grown close. You’d both catch each other walking around the house in the middle of the night and eventually ended up watching s movie on the couch together. One conversation brought up the idea of kids. Carminsita started gushing about how she’s always wanted a little sister or brother. You could see her eyes shine as she spoke about it. You loved the childlike wonder she still held onto to. After that night you thought about what it would be like to get another kid. You smiled as you thought about raising a child with Mat. It warmed your heart. You needed to tell him but thinking about his possible reactions made you a hit nervous. Simply because you didn’t know what he would say.
One night as you lied in bed with Mat, your head on his bare chest. You hummed before saying "c-can I ask you something?” You say. Mat jumps a bit, a little startled by you breaking the silence. He hummed and nodded his head. You took a deep breath and spoke “how would you feel about…about adopting another kid…I completely understand if you don’t want to. I just really want to raise a kid with you. It’s not like I’m trying to replace Carminsita I just-” you were cut off by a tired chuckle.
“Breathe, Y/N,” he said. You realized how fast you were talking and sighed out an apology. He ran his hands through your hair. “That actually sounds lovely…I-I’ve been thinking about raising a kid with you for awhile…plus Carminsita has been begging for a sibling for years” He said before chuckling. You smiled and pressed a kiss to his chest. He kissed your head in return. “We’ll talk more in the morning. Goodnight, Y/N"
"Goodnight” You sighed happily.
Damien: The thought first came to you as you lied next to a sleeping Damien, his long hair laying messily over his face. You smiled as he slept. He looked so peaceful. You sighed and let your thoughts wander. You thought about Lucien, who moved out and graduated a year ago. You and Lucien grew close but the two years with him felt like a blur. You grew sad over it. You missed having a kid around the house. You also really want to see Damien with a baby or toddler. It was so cute to think about. Soon enough you fell asleep, dreaming of Damien holding a child on his hip as they walked through the garden.
“Darling?” Damien said, pulling you from your zone out. You looked up and smiled. “Morning love” You said and kissed his cheek. “Tea?” He smiled and nodded. You nuzzled up to him as you two drank tea. “Dear, are you alright. You’ve seemed to be acting off lately. Like something is resting in your thoughts. It’s completely okay if you don’t want to share. I just want to make sure you’re alright” You smiled at his words. Damien really cared about you and it was great knowing that. You turned to him.
“I’ve just…hm how do I say this?… I’ve been thinking. I..I really miss having a kid around and I would love to experience raising a kid with you. Thinking about adopting a child with you…has been chewing at my thoughts” you admitted. Damien hummed and thought for a moment.
"I think we’ll need to think about it and look into it more. Seeing what age is best for us and things of that nature. I think the idea is lovely.“ He smiled and kissed your cheek "you don’t have to hide these things from me. Especially something like that. I have no problem with raising a kid with you."
You smiled and hugged him tightly, thankful you had such an amazing husband.
Joseph: Why do you want more kids? You ask yourself. You have 5 If you added your kid to the mix. It was definitely exhausting. When you started thinking about getting another kid you almost slapped yourself. But it was eating at you. Maybe it was because you wanted to fully raise a kid with Joseph? No idea. Either way, you should probably tell Joseph. Since it was quite literally eating at your thoughts.
You brought it up very randomly, catching Joseph off guard. Well. You kinda brought it up. You suddenly asked him if he’d ever want another kid. He said maybe. After that, you brought up children a lot. One day Joseph sighs.
"Y/N, something is telling me you want another kid” Your cheeks heat up and you stutter before sighing “ I do…I know 6 kids is a lot. I just…I dunno. I think I want to raise a kid fully with you.” Josephs cheeks heated and it was silent for a moment. He soon smiled and wrapped his arms around you. “That sounds amazing. I would love nothing more than to raise another kid with you” You felt joy run through you. You threw yourself on him, hugging him tightly. He laughed and hugged you back.
Brain: 4 years. It doesn’t feel like 4 years. It’s been so quick. You’ve seen Daisy grow up into the mature teenager she is. She’s the most mature 14 year old you’ve ever seen. It made you smile. Daisy had really gotten close to you. You were happy you had her for awhile longer. You still have time to watch her grow. One day, it was just you and Daisy. Those days were always nice. Your talks together always amazed you. She was so mature. Daisy hummed and started talking about siblings. How’s she always wanted a little sibling. You hummed and asked her how’d she feel if they adopted another kid. The look in her eyes showed it all and you chuckled. You both began to discuss names and how the two of you would love and spoil the kid to death. After that day you realized how much you wanted another kid. You and Brian we’re financially stable so money wouldn’t be an issue and Brian is definitely a family person. Daisy could babysit when needed. It all seemed to fall together. You decided you were going to talk to Brian about it. You hadn’t figured out when but the conversation ended up being started by Brian. “Y/N!” He called. “Yes?” You called back. You looked up and saw Brian walking into the room. He looked at you for a bit before saying “do you want more kids?”
“You’re just gonna throw that out at 9 in the morning?” You said and chuckled. You shuffled on the couch so Brian could sit. You nuzzled into his chest when he got sat down. “I’m not opposed to having more kids. That sounds lovely actually. Why do you ask?” “Cause Daisy keeps talking about wanting a baby brother.” He chuckled “Her saying that made me realize, having another kid might be nice” You started laughing.
“Oh. It’s nothing. It’s just. Me and Daisy talked about that. She made me realize that too.” Brian chuckled.
“Well, seems like the whole family wants a new member"
"Guess so.” You smile and kissed his cheek. He kissed your head and you lied there for awhile. Thinking about all that the future holds now.
Robert: So much has happened the past few years. After about a year after the party, he came to your door and 2 in the morning and asked if you still had feelings for him because he felt ready for something. In which you responded “Robert, from the bottom of my heart, I love hearing that you’re ready for this and I’d love to take that step but it’s 2 in the morning.” You said with a tired voice “I’m still not sure if I’m awake” That was s fun night once you woke up s bit more. Robert had really really improved. He was 2 years sober now and you were beyond proud of him. You also lived together now. Which didn’t change much since before the move one of you was always at the others house anyway. The past two years things had gotten more… domestic. Since Robert was going sober and you were going sober with him. You didn’t have a problem but you knew having someone do something hard with you eases the stress. There was no more late night bar hopping. Cryptid hunting lasted but the two of you had more lazy mornings, less really late nights. You cooked the two of you breakfast once. Robert teased you about being cheesy but soon realized he made an accidental pun and couldn’t stop laughing. Robert was a lot happier. Looking physically better as well. You weren’t sure when the thought came up but you thought about having a kid with him a lot. With Robert doing better and life being more domestic, the thought of children seemed… really nice.
“Robert” you said as the two if you were in the kitchen, sipping coffee. You on the counter, him pouring another mug of coffee for himself. He made a noise. “Can I ask you something"
"Shoot, kid” You took a sip before speaking. “This might seem out of the blue. Well it is. And I understand if you don’t like the idea. But. I’ve been thinking. I’m wondering..how do you feel about the idea of… adopting a kid with me"
Silence. You felt instant regret. His face was unreadable as he processed what you said.
"Y/N…I…look. I like…I want to raise s kid with you. But I just…I don’t know if I’m ready for that. And I’m…I don’t to make the same mistakes again. I don’t want to disappoint you…I….” He sighed and bit his lip. You hoped off the counter and kissed him gently before hugging him.
"I understand if you’re not ready. I didn’t expect you to immediately want to. Just remember, you’re doing amazing. I love you and you could never disappoint me.“
His arms weakly wrapped around you.
"No problem” you smiled and kissed his cheek.