LGBT+ Cafe

REQUESTS OPEN // previously lgbtaesthetictime We do pronoun validations, stimboards, icons, and if you want name recommendations we're really good at those too mods: Avie Alistair (she/they) and Tristan (he/him) #order up! = requests

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guidelines for asks

name recommendations: (you don’t need to have all of these, but are helpful if you already have an idea)

unisex, masc, feminine, etc. (needed)

theme

aesthetic

length

starting letter/ending letter

examples of similar names

pronoun/name validations:

name* (needed) 

pronoun set (needed)

interests (technically optional, but it helps a lot)

(pride) stimboards:

theme/aesthetic

pride flag (needed)

stims (needed)

name

colors

character (if any; for example: bisexual luna lovegood)

moodboards:

theme/aesthetic (needed if any)

name 

colors

pride flag

text (if any)

tagging system:

#order up! = requests

#menu = pinned post/rules/guidelines

#refund = helped needed with your request/edits

#customer service = asks about requests/orders

#mod avie = asks answered by avie

#mod tristan = asks answered by tristan

*the more you include, the longer it usually takes to write. it’s fine to include as many names as you like, but it make take much longer. we recommend sending in one of each name so we can answer them quicker. this is for people who want to try 3+ names at a time

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Can I get some names related to Shouta Aizawa from My Hero Academia? -🫐

hey friend!

I've read some of the manga and know his character a decent amount, but I'm not sure what you mean by this? Do you mean names similar to his powers, his vibes, or his real name? I can do it, I just don't know what kind of names you want 😅

-mod avie

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heya! sorry if you're not open to requests right now, but I was wondering if you had any masculine names similar to Jimmy/Jim and/or Will? no worries if not, have a wonderful day y'all :)

That's fine my friend:

I love Jim/my and Will as names myself so here you go:

Christopher/Kit, Henry, Leo, James, Lincoln/Link, Dylan, Silas, Graham/Gray, Harry, Frankie, Reggie, Peter, Brian, Joseph, David or Cameron

-mod tristan

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Names similar to gallery or collection/collector? Unisex or both genders (kinda like how sam can be a guy or a girl lol) bonus points for 6+ letters long :)

I apologise that this is so late. I started my first year at university and wanting to be a teacher is so much harder than I thought haha

Gallery and collector names were super hard to find so let me know if I completely missed what you were looking for:

Veranda, Canvas, Gaden, Bellamy, Abalone, Aderyn, Baker, Caelin, Carrigan, Evren, Fenix, Fig, Gardner, Coness, Critic/al, Dwell

-mod tristan

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can i have a pronoun validation for se/se/ser? with the name ithriel. some things about me: i'm a witch, i love nature, especially forests. and i have a black cat (his name is teaser and he's the best <3).

hey! sorry this took so long, my life is a fridge full of leftovers i dont want to eat rn lol, thank you for requesting !!

ithriel's cat teaser? yeah im babysitting ser cat for the weekend.

se are really impressive in ser love of nature, its awesome!

ithriel's a witch, have you met ser? se is really nice!

have you met ithriel? ser cat is adorable, his name is teaser! se is a witch, which is really cool of ser. i wonder what ser favorite part of being a witch is? ithriel loves nature too, se want to go to the forest together soon when ser free! se is pretty knowledgeable about forests i bet, i wonder if se likes to pick flowers or collect rocks? i should ask ithriel next time i see ser, and se can show me if se has collected anything from the forest!

-mod avie

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can i have a name validation for the name eryn? with the pronouns they/them. some things about me: i have four cats, i'm learning german, and i really like stinging nettles (the plant)!

hey eryn! sorry this took so long! im going to do some sentences and then a lil paragraph <3

have you met my friend eryn?

yeah, eryn said they're going to be with their cats tonight.

i wonder what software eryn uses for their german studies?

eryn! do you have pictures of stinging nettles?

this is my friend eryn! they're really cool, they have four cats which sounds like a lot but they love their cats a lot. eryn is learning german, which looks super hard! its impressive how dedicated eryn is to german, they definitely work hard. one of the first things eryn told me was how much they like stinging nettles! i love listening to them talk about their favorite plant, its so awesome how excited they get. eryn is a good friend, i think you would like them!

-mod avie (eryn is a cool name!!)

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how do y'all go about finding names for name requests? /genq do you come up with them yourself, or are there certain sites you check?

hey! idk how mod tristan/jj does it, but personally it depends on the ask. honestly i use google/random name sites, sometimes i just remember cool names that i liked or names of people i know. oftentimes people use vibes/certain letters so that makes it a lot easier because i can narrow it down.

i recommend nameberry.com personally, and theres sometimes cool name lists on tumblr you can look up! or babynames.com

its kind of hard to find unique names tbh unless its from straight up other cultures names and even so thats not like the same? so playing around with it in my head is what i do if they want a unique-r name.

(thats what i did for my name anyway! i liked the sound of agave, but not the "gah" noise, so i went by ave [ah-vey] but i wanted it lighter so now im avie! [ay-vee])

-mod avie alistair

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hi, could you suggest masc names that start with either Z, V, C, M or N?

this is so late im sorry *crying face here*

Z: zach, zeus, zion, za(y)ne, zurich, zavier, zelda, zay, zeke

V: vincent, victor, vince, valentin(e/o), vance, valiant, virgil, vulcan, valerie/an, vesper, val, vern

C: carter, chase, colt, charlie/charles, cameron, cesar, connor, carson, callum, ciel, cyan, cyrus, caspian, corbin, cassius, cash, cade, cedric

M: michael, maverick, milo, mark, matthias, mosiah, micah, merlin, maddox, manny, marty, micky, mack, marcus, moss, miles, magnus

N: nolan, noah, nathaniel, nyx, nick, narcissus, naiche, nikola(i), neil, nigel, norbert, niall, nestor, nemo, niels, nandor, neptune, napoleon

i tried to do a mix of unique and classic, lmk if you want a specific theme/vibe!

-mod avie alistair

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Hello! I'm looking for some masculine name ideas and I'm having trouble finding one that fits - Nate/Nathaniel is the closest one I've found. I'm someone who likes to read, skateboard, make art, and listen to music and I want that part of my personality to be reflected in my name :) Also like weirdly I want the name to sound like it belongs to someone who wears a lot of sweaters. I'm not really that particular about anything else, but I really appreciate the work you do on here, and I want to thank you for the time you took to read this!

ooh cool vibes! i kind of went for cozy artsy names, hope thats ok! i tried to add more "n" names since you like those names. let me know if you want another but like using what you like off of this list (i hope that makes sense)

-eli(jah/as) -ben(jamin) -cal(lahan) -oliver

-jas(per) -nolan - cam(eron/don) -quinn

-andrew -vincent -emmitt -roan

-ellis -tate -fletcher -nic(k/olas)

-milo -tucker -asher -noah

also im so sorry this took so long, i havent been a human person in like 9 months and college applications are sucking the soul out of me <3

-mod avie alistair (been thinking abt adding the name carter? idk?)

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can I get a name/pronoun validation with the name Cyrus and Morax (if you can use both) and he/him? thank you!

I've done this for you in quiet a few different ways, one paragraph for each name, one where theyre mixed in together and then some questions directed to you to see how you'd feel with the names .Hope this helps you :)

I've got this new friend and his name is Cyrus, have you met him? He's really cool and he loves every meal that I cook for him! Cyrus said that he's not cool but he really is. Cyrus just might be the most passionate, smart and amazing person in the world.

Morax has such an awesome name. He really stands out from the crowd with it, but in such a distinctive way. Morax is truly one of a kind and he doesn't believe it. Morax is the best.

My friend Morax loves autumn. He says that the colours of the leaves and the sound they make as he stands on them is the best thing. Cyrus really loves the orange leaves but Morax also likes the yellow and brown leaves. Morax is very cool and he's so much like me. Cyrus is so sweet and awesome.

Hey Cyrus, how are you?

What's your favourite colour Morax?

Morax, do you know the time?

Do you have any pets, Cyrus?

- mod joey

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hey! my sibling is looking for a name, and im helping them out!

they like the names William, Mallory, and Riley, [like older, grunge-sounding] and have a preference for longer names! I think they like those three starting letters also. thanks!!

That's so nice of you to help them, what a fantastic sibling you are! When I was looking for my own name, I liked lots of names like this theme so here you go:

Robert, Aleksandr, Darwin, Dempsey, Francis, Enger, Kurtis, Melvin, Clarence, Othello, Dalbert, Sebastian, Christopher, Quentin, Charles, Adrienne, Noir, Morte, Molloch, Eris, Corbin, Cain, Damien, Dorian, Eoghan, Elwin, Jael, Kazamir, Jarleth, Nodin, Orpheus, Osiris, Ulfred and Valentine.

I hope these help. If you want more, feel free to send another ask :)

-mod joey

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hello! can i get some neutral, medium-short names that preferably start with i, but don't have to, are ocean/forest/space themed, or just. nature in general. that sound sort of etheral or elven? suiting for a non-human. oh it would be cool if some of them had the letter x at the end. some names i like: ithriel, alex, ister, onyx, sirius, eryn. thanks!

That's fine:

Elladan, Arnex, Orion, Elias, Quincy, Wexley, Rex, Onyx, Stark, Rohir, Reggie, Beryn, Sage, Ivory, Ivan, Oak, Iphis

I'll also chuck a few in from the fantasy book I'm writing in case any take your fancy: Runel, Koudez, Ferge, Safilon, Ihman and Andu.

I hope that these help.

-mod tristan

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Hi! I wanted to ask for some name recs?

Preferably masc/neutral ones

Vibe would be lsomething grey, ghostly and ethereal names please!

Something that would fit a nonhuman Person would be lovely!

Have a good day! :]

coming right up!

bone(s), guyde, mort, waythe, (k/c)urse, remnant, valence, guise, sane, trace, onx, emris, elli(k/c/x), elixir, dupe, spiro, absinthe, echo, wyanas, thanatos, umbris, malignus, demise, aeon, necos, noxis, smog, eleva(r/n), anjun, erkin, neven, oberon, zenith, zephyr, boreal, xerxes

hope you like these ! <3

-mod avie

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hi! can i get some feminine/unisex medium-short names that start with m and/or are space themed? maybe something like stel or celeste? ty! ^^

sure ! these are fun prompts, thank you for being specific that helps a lot <3 !

m: marie/mary/mari, ma(y/e), mia/mya, maddie, maya, max, maxine, maeve, mille, maisie, mac(i/e), mack, mina, miley, margo, mika, malvie, maple, merci, mela, mccoy, mac, mattie, merce, mazen

m and space: maia, meteor, moon, miranda, mira, minerva, mercury

space: stella, lyra, luna, cress, ceres, astra, starla, star(r), sky(e), eclipse, juno, astra, artemis, nova, aris, gaia, nyx

-mod avie

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If possible? Could I try out the name Jameson with the nicknames Jam and James? I like reading (especially fantasy and Greek retellings) and I also like painting (even if I'm not especially great at it). My pronouns are he/him

Thank you in advance! I always come here when I'm struggling for a

ofc ! and im so glad you can come here when you're struggling, that makes me so happy and motivated, i would love to read the rest of the message but i didnt get the rest lol

This is Jameson! He and I met at the library a few months ago in the fantasy section. James and I were both looking for the same book, thankfully he found two copies and he gave me one. Jameson actually had this fantastic idea, he said we should paint the fantasy book cover with us on it, since that's how we met! He's literally so brilliant, I immediately started going through my paint supplies. Jam said he wasn't sure if it would turn out great, but I believe in him! It wasn't perfect of course, Jame's nose had a paint smear on it that we couldn't fix and his clothes looked off, but he said he loved it! I made Jameson keep it, it's up on his wall right now!

Hey Jameson, your shoe is untied.

Jam, can you pass my water bottle?

Hurry up James, we're going to be late!

Jameson, what's your favorite Greek myth?

hope this helps ! much love <3 <3

-mod avie

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Hi, could I please get a pronoun/name validation for the name Holland and he/him? I play soccer and like punk / trash metal.

Sure thing Holland!

This is my friend Holland! He's very cool and he likes punk/trash metal. He keeps telling me that I'd like it too if I'd give it a try but I think Hollands taste is just too cool for me. Holland is so sweet and funny though and he's the kindest person I've ever met. Holland is also super smart and thoughtful. Did you know Holland plays soccer? I call it football and he always laughs when I say it! He's such a great player though and in so happy for him.

Hi Holland! How are you doing?

What's your favourite season Holland? Mines Autumn.

Hey Holland, do you have any pets?

- mod tristan

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I love youses work!!! <<3 And I was wondering if I’d be able to sneak in a mood board? ^^; Theme: Dark Academia, especially the statue part of it, brown/cream heavy, and an asexual flag :>

Sure thing! I hope you like it :)

-mod tristan