So what do I do about my mom who always looks down on me even though I am almost an adult. I try to talk to her about it and she says im right then when i babysitting a child she says maybe if you didnt hang with kids then you would be treated like one. But that was because i was babysitting iu cant just leave a child there alone.How do i go about this situation? Do i just wait or do I confront her? I would love if everyone responded.
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Mod Strawberry Mist: I'd say try and confront her. If you don't get your feelings across then she won't know. Let her know that it's really confusing when you are told you are treated as a child because you are babysitting them. That's really weird and i personally feel she is using that as an excuse for treating you the way she does. Seriously though, sit down and talk to her, but don’t get angry if she does. You’ll only prove you are the child she thinks you are.
Mod Dedenne:I think your mother is so used to taking care of you that when you've finally grown, she refuses to stop. Waiting only hurts more (assuming that your mother may not pick up on hints), so I think it's best that you should confront her about the situation. However, I feel that you should confront her in a mature and calm manner. Otherwise, she'll assume that you're still unable to fully function as an adult and will continue the way she's been treating you.
Mod Power: I belive that you should confront your mom about how you feel but not with anger that always leads to more yelling and when that happens no one is truly listening.remind your mom you are an adult and babysitting dosent make you a child